Four or so. Why?Uh, at what age was that, again?
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Feb 11, 2007mikeyG posted a message on My Hoohaa MonologuePosted in: {bloggyG}
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Jan 31, 2007mikeyG posted a message on my life..... it has no real reason.........i love that joy division songPosted in: PODOBLOGOCAST 2.1
it really speaks to me -
Jan 30, 2007mikeyG posted a message on My Big StinkAnyone who knows me can see the sweet irony of that comment.Posted in: {bloggyG}
1) I already moved out of my toxic waste-adjacent apartment
2) I'm currently saving to move to BC
3) My only reason for staying is financial. I simply don't have the money to live elsewhere (yet). I don't have much love for my hometown. -
Jan 29, 2007mikeyG posted a message on My Personal VictoryAmen. And I bask in that glow as often as I can, because I'm elite.Posted in: {bloggyG}
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Jan 29, 2007mikeyG posted a message on My Life As An OrphanHmm, pained by something. Not sure what that could be. Might be the paternal jettisoning ....... nah. :slant:Posted in: {bloggyG}
I'm going to be blunt. My two-way street of family drama is a touchy subject for me. Especially now. I only brought it up because I felt the need to vent and this is the best place. My real life friends would only offer sympathy, and I'd rather avoid the chick flick moments. Little risk of those here. But my venting doesn't mean I'm looking to share my 'pain' beyond that. -
Jan 27, 2007mikeyG posted a message on My Life As An OrphanI'd consider myself once burned, twice shy. I'm more jaded than cynical. I'm only pessimistic about the motives of people who have given me reason to be.Posted in: {bloggyG}
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Jan 23, 2007mikeyG posted a message on My Crisis of FaithWell, that and JC loved jumping on couches, too. It's the real reason he was crucified.Posted in: {bloggyG}
I think it's funny that he's Scientology's Christ. He didn't even start the damn cult or have anything at all to do with its founding, he's just the idiot with the highest profile. -
Jan 23, 2007mikeyG posted a message on My First EntryAbsolutely, Tuatha. Though the trick is to act as if you secretly approved of the bandwagon in the first place.Posted in: {bloggyG}
Which I totally did. I always thought blogs were rad. - To post a comment, please login or register a new account.
I don't think you were out of turn, I just wan't clear on what you were saying. I think a good faith discussion is one where people give legitimate consideration to the points raised and reasoning provided and don't simply use the opportunity to proselytize or attack people.
I don't disagree with your latter point, and I think that comes with time. It may never come, honestly, though I still think there's value in trying to facilitate that. I literally teach pro-SJW topics in small, rural communities in a particularly conservative province and I have been yelled at, had slurs shouted at me, and I've been threatened (down to being doxxed and having fake dating profiles created to paint me as sexual pervert/pedophile). Doesn't stop me from trying to educate and empathize, if anything it just makes the successes all the sweeter. And those successes start with not assuming people are too entrenched in the opinions to be reached, that may be true for some, but not for all. It just takes the right approach. Questions over accusations, empathy over condemnation, engagement over judgment.
Which I would argue is not engaging in the conversation in good faith. And it is worth pointing out that while individual posters may refuse to engage in reading resources/studies/etc, others (be they active participants or lurkers) will.
Haha, given what I heard today from the street preacher I mentioned upthread, it's not just the USA.
It can be exhausting to engage with people who refuse to entertain facts, but it can be done. It's a matter of understanding them on a human level and meeting them where they're at. Challenging? Yes. Frustrating? Oh **** is it ever. Possible? Absolutely. But it is why I prefer to be paid because it is significant effort, so I understand why it's daunting in a community like this where the labor is unpaid.
For what it's worth, I think a lot of the posters on the site are likely not finished baking, politically-speaking. And even those who have more firmly-defined political opinions are able to change. Your mileage may vary on the likelihood of that change, but if I can get people in rural Alberta to understand that trans people aren't evil, deranged, and/or dangerous, I believe people on MTGS can be reached about topics of bigotry.
On the realistic probability of these conversations happening in a productive way, I share your concerns. Posters can barely express an opinion (positive or negative) about a card, set, or deck without someone trying to prove them wrong and the community has developed a toxic reputation as a result. But we've had room for these conversations before, the key ingredient is role modeling behavior and moderating/facilitating with finesse. This community can absolutely do that.
There really isn't that much more to say. The real power issue here is with activated abilities. I like the interesting tweak on Voltron-style legends to enable an instant/sorcery build rather than counters/auras/equipment. Though I think it should be restricted to those card types because activated abilities are going to rapidly spiral this out of control. Even a lowly Angelic Page becomes potent, I can imagine there are activated abilities that would break Amisa in half. So perhaps limit it to sorcery and instant spells you control? Still very powerful and there's likely a broken combination in there somewhere, but more realistic in the game (excepting memory issues).
For the record, the "purity test" here is that a contingent of posters don't want to see bigoted attitudes shared on the forums without challenge (or, if egregious enough, moderator action). Is that unreasonable? I ask because the phrase "purity test" is usually thrown around as a way to frame advocacy around higher standards as unreasonable.
As well, it is important to note that this forum isn't like a shop or a car wash, it's a place where opinions, ideas, and discussion are encouraged and platformed. There ought to be different standards for behavior, lest the forum become a space that's unwelcoming for some - it's why the forum has rules and moderation of behavior at all. This is more akin to allowing homophobic street preachers use your space to spread their hate and ignorance (he said, three blocks from a local business doing exactly that right this minute), and telling counter protesters they can't pushback or say anything without actions taken by your business to stop them.
I think your first question is an important one, it's something I've been thinking about as well. Your second question, though, is framed oddly. Do you you think its the position of the people advocating in this thread that people with alt-right/bigoted views should just be removed from the site by bans or harassment? Anyone who feels otherwise can correct me if I'm wrong, but my understanding was that we're pushing for more leeway to actively engage in good faith discussion (so long as it remains respectful). The bigots can stay, it's their bigotry that ought to go and there's value in giving space to posters to engage and challenge those views, demonstrate support for marginalized people, and help give people (whether people actively engaged in the discussion or viewing it as a lurker) something to think about. Many people in this site's presumed userbase (predominantly young, predominantly white, majorly male) have expressed that space to actively engaged concepts openly and without condemnation helped them get out of the alt-right's gravitational pull. Whole articles have been written about the phenomenon (particularly in the case of YouTubers, Tik Tok-ers, and other social media avenues of educating/debating a topic).
Simply removing people because they have problematic views is a waste of an opportunity to engage and educate - if not that poster, than the many watching the conversation who may share similar opinions.
Much like the green one before it, two of these effects will always be useful to some degree. In the right circumstances, this fairly effectively shuts down the opponent for a turn and replaces itself. That's not nothing.
I think that's a great ideal, but still naive. I've never felt this community was truly that (literally as far back as the 'News days), nor any other comparable space online. Though, I don't really expect them to be, wherever you find people interacting you will find issues of racism/homophobia/misogyny/etc. And again, I won't speak for all marginalized people, but I don't have an expectation that that ideal can be reached - just that the people responsible for the space try to facilitate healthier discussions.
The Harry Potter community is dealing with issues of transphobia, sports communities are having conversations about racism, etc. Communities dedicated to hobbies and pastimes aren't devoid of these conversations. I get why you're aspiring to that, I just don't think it's realistic. And to a degree, I don't know that it's responsible, either.
To hopefully clarify what I mean by that, I'll use the analogy of a classroom as it's my bread and butter at work. One of the most frequent requests I get is to conduct professional development for teachers because the schools have policies around making classrooms safer, but many teachers lack for the confidence/skills to intervene in instances where bigotry is expressed in subtle/casual ways. Teachers already have enough to deal with, and they get that this is also important, but for many it's just not their strength and it's easier just to end conversations and maybe send a student to the office for detention if they do something egregious. Those teachers foster environments of neutrality, which isn't the same thing as fostering environments of safety and of growth - which is why my team gets called in for PD. To their perspective, the space is orderly and hurtful conversations are shut down so things are good. Yet from the perspective of some of the kids in class, they will see things differently. Common sentiments expressed in our focus groups were things like "I felt like if I defended myself, I'd be in trouble too", "no one stood up for me, not even my teacher", "I feel isolated/unsupported/anxious in that space", and "I don't want to be there."
That's clearly not a 1 to 1 comparison, but I think it helps illustrate where I'm coming from.
True, but they're here and I know you just want people to report and ignore but that's not happening and I think understanding why it's not is important.
I suppose a part of my struggle with this is the emphasis on attacks and confrontations. While certainly that might be accurate for some interactions, I think it's reductive to categorize all of the conversations we're talking about that way. I've seen posters attempt more of a call-in strategy, and I think more often than not the pushback against bigotry has been conducted with an intent of real shifts in beliefs. Hell, I've PMed posters to engage them in real dialogue away from the public view where people may be more inclined to posture and snipe for clout.
I guess ultimately the issue here is one of vision. Do we think a community is healthier when hard conversations are stifled or when they're given space to proceed healthily and in good faith?
How do you think community involvement can be improved?
I suppose in the short term that could be true, but I do not believe that escalation is inevitable, nor do I think instances of escalation are lost causes even when they occur. Conflict is messy, so is growth - that's true of individuals and of communities.
I suppose that's how I see the role of authority figures in this context. They sift through the escalating tension to identify the healthy version of the conversation, deescalate and guide people to that healthier version of the conversation. If things are escalating, it's because people are invested in the issue on the table. I say harness that energy, just ensure it's directed in productive ways rather than destructive ways.
Last year, my city's Pride Festival hit the skids after a cluster**** of racism-related conflicts. In the wake of it, the community turned on itself, with escalating tension, death threats, people losing jobs, and a whole organization dissolving. My org began hosting summits to facilitate conversations at the organization/community leader level to hopefully resolve a lot of the unresolved conflicts and filter that down to the community level. Obviously we weren't going to solve racism with a series of summits, but conversations and deescalating meant we were moving in that direction. People shared, people heard about things they'd never experienced, structural issues and power dynamics in the community were exposed as unhealthy, relationships strengthened, and simple resolutions/initiatives were undertaken. There's still a ton of work to be done, but the community is healing because we made space for hard conversations, and yes for confrontations where warranted.
Do you believe that is happening? Do you think simply stopping the behavior on the forum is enough? These questions are more rhetorical in nature, more food for thought than otherwise.
For what it's worth, and please take this in the spirit intended, but when people perceive a vacuum of leadership on issues of principle they will attempt to fill it. I think the sentiments being expressed to you are indicative of that perception at work. I say that only because I think it's a dynamic the staff should understand the motivation behind if they want to dispel the perception and I think it ought to be considered as the staff discuss things.
No, it's not. The staff thinking it is, though, is profoundly naive and certainly clarifies a lot.
Who are you referring to here? Are you saying that marginalized people are mad and stressed because other posters are raising awareness about ignorant/bigoted/offensive attitudes displayed on the forum? Who is the attacker here, is there a lot of attacks going on? I'll admit that I haven't seen a lot of direct attacks going on so much as dogwhistles to alt-righty/bigoted attitudes and frankly that's a bigger piss off and stressor than other posters taking a stand against it. But I may have misread you.
So, for context, I'm the director of a charity that supports 2SLGBTQ+ people across our province, and I championed a whole educational program that is a full-day class on creating and maintaining safer spaces. I work with municipalities, schools, community organizations - I even worked with a federal prison once. I don't know that I'd call myself an expert, but this is certainly something I work with daily.
Your first point is certainly on target, but I don't think the second is. Safe spaces don't assume challenging/hurtful conversations won't happen, they ensure that the people who could be in some way harmed by those situations have backup so they aren't in a position to deal with it alone. And in some cases that means having allies take on the work of pushing back against ignorance and helping people understand why their attitudes/actions are harmful. Safety isn't stopping conversations about bigoted opinions from happening, it's ensuring that when they do happen that they are healthy/respectful discussions and the people most impacted by them are supported. In my trainings, I advocate for authority figures (teachers, supervisors, etc) to be those supports, facilitate healthy and anti-oppressive discussions, and follow-up with people who may have been impacted to ensure they're okay. On a site like this, I'd anticipate the staff would take that on but here it's largely been a handful of users. And I'm grateful that they do.
I certainly can't and won't speak for every marginalized person on the forum, perhaps some like these conversations being avoided. I think that's like an ostrich with its head in the sand, racist/homophobic/misogynistic/etc members are on the forum, and in my experience letting things go unchallenged doesn't make things go away. I personally feel most supported and 'safe' (in this context) when I know other posters won't let casual bigotry slide and will seek to pushback and educate. That, in my opinion, is the hallmark of a real safe space.
Not to be petty, but I reported a homophobic slur in a thread title and nothing happened for three days. I'm not bringing it up to criticize the staff, I get why that situation played out as it did and that's my point. The staff isn't able to facilitate and guide conversations like it used to, they aren't in the position to be the empathetic authorities nurturing a community (not that previous iterations of the staff didn't have their issues). I think it's why you're seeing regular posters attempt to step into that role by pushing back on posters expressing opinions that may be hurtful to other posters. And it's very likely why you're receiving so much frustration, the staff's stance on this feels more like neutrality than real leadership - especially from the perspective of posters putting in effort to be supportive and try to make other posters feel supported (which is to say nothing of the general principle many of these posters may be guided by beyond just supporting other posters).
I appreciate that the staff is having conversations about how to address the politicization and partisanship of everything, I hope feedback from posters has contributed to those conversations. I don't think the issue is going away anytime soon, it'll probably only worsen as the world continues to strain.
Yes, it should. Multikicker counts as a kicker ability based on the translated wording, the same way megamorph counts as a morph ability for Backslide.
Depends on the context. In Limited? Kicker has always been reliable utility/flexibility.
In Constructed? Blink of an Eye/Into the Roil, Jilt, Kavu Titan, Orim's Chant, Rite of Replication, and Urza's Rage all see (or saw) constructed play in various formats at various points in time, at least. And those are just the ones that had arguable competitive success at their height of play.
Your point is fair, though remember that kicker has to be valued slightly higher because of its flexibility so conservative costs are the easiest way to keep them in check. They've explored alternative kicker costs, though, and I think they should have again here.