I think sigarda is good if you go the equipment/aura route using cards like angelic destiny and armadillo cloak. Equipments like Sword of fire and ice, light and shadow and Feast and famine. If you wanna run straight enchantment aura's, I would suggest using bruna, light of alabaster. She is much better for that kinda thing.
1) Her approach of telling you her rape story and then demanding that you disclose information about yourself to her is definitely emotional manipulation. (Sidenote, should you really be revealing her personal life to the internet?) As others have said, her information was freely given with no promise from you, expecting that you reciprocate is misguided, and becoming upset over it is definitely wrong. Especially given that she volunteered that information when you two were not even dating yet.
2) Her insistence on telling her parents *everything* is a major red flag. If this is something that you don't want to be public knowledge for whatever reason, the fact that she would immediately turn around and tell other people about it, against your express wishes, is reason enough to not tell her. It's also reason enough to not continue a relationship with her.
3) However, we cannot place all of the blame squarely on her. You have told her that you have a medical condition, without revealing the specifics or even the scope. In her position, I would put that as a reason not to continue a relationship with you. What is the point in investing several more months into the relationship when your eventual revelation could be a dealbreaker? Worse yet, what if your intent is to hide this information until she is so emotionally invested that she could not in good conscience break off the relationship, despite the fact that she would then be consigned to, for example, taking care of a severe Alzheimer's patient for the rest of her life?
IF you want to continue the relationship (and that seems like a fairly big if, given 1 and 2), you need to address 3 as well. My suggestion would be to talk to her, and tell her that you are willing to disclose your medical condition, but only under the conditions that it stays between you and her; she cannot tell her parents. If she cannot accept that, then the relationship needs to end. This talk does not need to happen immediately, but I would recommend that it happens soon, likely within the next two months.
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If a girl plays these types of games you really should consider leaving her alone. sounds too much like an emotional vampire to me....
Anyone considered running a 2-of Bojuka Bog at least in the SB for Valakut/Elf decks that run Vengvine, or even against the mirror? Hold back and when they have a Bloodghast or 2 in the garveyard, cast it?
Just thinking out loud I guess......
Honestly I dont know any valukut decks that run vengevine...
I run bog as a one of because of the possibility of the mirror match in my meta but thats it. I dont run against many vengevine builds nor do i see any builds of valakut running vengevine.
It sounds like she is too busy to deal with you, No offense meant by the statement but if she is doing all that then, I would just let it be. If she wants to talk to you, then let her come to you. No point in placing effort into something that isnt being matched.
Of course there is a simplier way to figure it out. Talk to her maybe?
She facebooked you, But honestly that doesnt say anything. Until She actually does something to warrent wondering if she likes you or not. I wouldnt read too much into it.
I love elves, I actually just got all of my stuff for elves today (except monuments, a bit out of my budget.)
I just got back in to the game and i was wondering if it was possible to mix another color in with elves? Like Red or something. I would love to make something with red in it. Any Ideas???
This all the way
If a girl plays these types of games you really should consider leaving her alone. sounds too much like an emotional vampire to me....
Honestly I dont know any valukut decks that run vengevine...
I run bog as a one of because of the possibility of the mirror match in my meta but thats it. I dont run against many vengevine builds nor do i see any builds of valakut running vengevine.
She facebooked you, But honestly that doesnt say anything. Until She actually does something to warrent wondering if she likes you or not. I wouldnt read too much into it.
I just got back in to the game and i was wondering if it was possible to mix another color in with elves? Like Red or something. I would love to make something with red in it. Any Ideas???