All right, here's my story(keep in mind I am 18 yrs old heading off to college very very soon):
Flashback to this past November. I meet a girl online in a videogame. First person I've met online that I have actually texted and exchanged selfies with(yes really). Now heres the bad part, Beginning in January or so she started to open up more to me about her past. She had made a naive mistake when she was in highschool, like 17 yrs old (shes 20 now). Sent out pics that shouldn't have existed to her Bf at the time, which mysteriously ended up on her facebook (we all think its the ex). Shes been insulted so many times for this hacker. In January or so I learned that this guy had been making death threats to her. (btw her old bf is in the Philippines and lives there, she's in the US; internet dating for ya). She also has problems at home with an abusive mother. Shes under a hell of a lot of stress and deals with all this drama. She's been acting very, and i mean very, suicidal lately... ive had to talk her out of it so many times now. She had a friend willing to help her find an apartment, but got in a fight with him this whole past week. she gave up on the guy, I called her and tried talking her out of it (this was yesterday). Today she wont even listen to me after I have said all I can, and I'm not the only one trying to talk her out of it. Last thing I heard from her was her saying "No thanks I don't think I will ^^, Sorry Gbye" when i said "I've said what i could, just make the RIGHT decision".
A little bit later she texted me again
her: Can you do me a favor? if not nvm ill leave again and sorry for the bother
me: What
her: Erm nvm.
me: Ok.
her: Sorry for disturbing.
That is the last thing I have heard from her
Now here's my question: What to do???
I had talked to my father about this. He said she has me wrapped around her finger since shes acted this way before and I sympathized for her, and that I'm infatuated with her. About an hour ago I got on the game we usually played, on a different account so she couldn't see, and looked up her name and saw she was online.
I don't know whether I should block her number or try to get through this again after all the times it has happened. So please, I need some advice. I've only known her for half a year, but she seems like a dear friend to me because shes like the first person I've made real friends with inside a game, and I hate giving up on friends.
Flashback to this past November. I meet a girl online in a videogame. First person I've met online that I have actually texted and exchanged selfies with(yes really). Now heres the bad part, Beginning in January or so she started to open up more to me about her past. She had made a naive mistake when she was in highschool, like 17 yrs old (shes 20 now). Sent out pics that shouldn't have existed to her Bf at the time, which mysteriously ended up on her facebook (we all think its the ex). Shes been insulted so many times for this hacker. In January or so I learned that this guy had been making death threats to her. (btw her old bf is in the Philippines and lives there, she's in the US; internet dating for ya). She also has problems at home with an abusive mother. Shes under a hell of a lot of stress and deals with all this drama. She's been acting very, and i mean very, suicidal lately... ive had to talk her out of it so many times now. She had a friend willing to help her find an apartment, but got in a fight with him this whole past week. she gave up on the guy, I called her and tried talking her out of it (this was yesterday). Today she wont even listen to me after I have said all I can, and I'm not the only one trying to talk her out of it. Last thing I heard from her was her saying "No thanks I don't think I will ^^, Sorry Gbye" when i said "I've said what i could, just make the RIGHT decision".
A little bit later she texted me again
her: Can you do me a favor? if not nvm ill leave again and sorry for the bother
me: What
her: Erm nvm.
me: Ok.
her: Sorry for disturbing.
That is the last thing I have heard from her
Now here's my question: What to do???
I had talked to my father about this. He said she has me wrapped around her finger since shes acted this way before and I sympathized for her, and that I'm infatuated with her. About an hour ago I got on the game we usually played, on a different account so she couldn't see, and looked up her name and saw she was online.
I don't know whether I should block her number or try to get through this again after all the times it has happened. So please, I need some advice. I've only known her for half a year, but she seems like a dear friend to me because shes like the first person I've made real friends with inside a game, and I hate giving up on friends.
So, separate myself or not