I have a question that really makes me crazy as I cannot understand the behavior of a friend of mine.
Essentially i know this friend from High School we were long time friends we were speaking a lot meeting often before and generally, everything was fine.
In the last months or year he started to behave differently. It was like he wanted to avoid me every time I texted him to go for a coffee he will tell me that he is busy and is working on something and I should text him in a week or so. Which I might do only to receive a similar response.
After this behaviour continued and with some coffees in between and some phone conversations that he said i am very good friend and after that still continue to behave in the same way. The same thing me calling him to ask for coffee and him saying is busy call in some days etc.
At some point I got fed up with the situation and i stopped calling him because i thought this guy maybe he didn't want me to call him so i decide to let it. Because it sad to have a friend but being unable to rely on him to share a problem and also just to hang on and chat a bit.
After almost two months he send me a message trying to see if i was angry. I was in a good mood so i answer i was friendly and everything to him but he started again the same thing he wants me to call him in order to say he is busy or somethihng.
The irony is that my friend is unemployed and from speaking with him a couple of times i got the feeling that is not working on something or is genuinely busy.
Can anybody please explain me with is behaving like that? And what boggles my mind you might argue he doesn't want to be friends with me that's respectable but since i cut contact why did he initiated it again?
Thanks to everybody in advance and hope the best for everybody.
I have a question that really makes me crazy as I cannot understand the behavior of a friend of mine.
Essentially i know this friend from High School we were long time friends we were speaking a lot meeting often before and generally, everything was fine.
In the last months or year he started to behave differently. It was like he wanted to avoid me every time I texted him to go for a coffee he will tell me that he is busy and is working on something and I should text him in a week or so. Which I might do only to receive a similar response.
After this behaviour continued and with some coffees in between and some phone conversations that he said i am very good friend and after that still continue to behave in the same way. The same thing me calling him to ask for coffee and him saying is busy call in some days etc.
At some point I got fed up with the situation and i stopped calling him because i thought this guy maybe he didn't want me to call him so i decide to let it. Because it sad to have a friend but being unable to rely on him to share a problem and also just to hang on and chat a bit.
After almost two months he send me a message trying to see if i was angry. I was in a good mood so i answer i was friendly and everything to him but he started again the same thing he wants me to call him in order to say he is busy or somethihng.
The irony is that my friend is unemployed and from speaking with him a couple of times i got the feeling that is not working on something or is genuinely busy.
Can anybody please explain me with is behaving like that? And what boggles my mind you might argue he doesn't want to be friends with me that's respectable but since i cut contact why did he initiated it again?
Thanks to everybody in advance and hope the best for everybody.