Not always. This case, kinda, 'cause I don't think he's all that hot to begin with.
but to each his/her own, I suppose.
I'm trying to convince mikey to come over and play ddr with me. I haven't played in forever, and I don't really feel like playing by myself. Besides, it's an excuse to hang out with him.
We watched an episode of Oprah in health today, 'cause it was about how smoking/etc. damage your organs. The doctor goes "Okay, guys, if you're impotent, that means something else in you is wrong, it's not just your dipstick".
As soon as he said "dipstick", all 18 of us cracked up. Oprah, of course, made a point to repeat that several times throughout the show. Which made us laugh harder.
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It's kinda funny how that works, isn't it? It's taboo or downright prohibited to say "*****" on television, so instead they use juvenile euphamisms. Great way to educate people.
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Me and my friend's girlfriend are going to 'play' sometime soon
I'm ecstatic and disappointed in myself at the same time.
Or you could just ..... not ......
Were I going to play the other man (which I totally never have, not ever, nope), I'd want to feel completely good about it. I'd want to be able to stand behind my actions and feel no guilt about it. You don't sound nearly so secure.
I have considered that aspect. Here's what I know...
1. I want to bang her really bad (don't think I'm a shallow guy - I'm not, but I just really want to do her... Anyone who says they've never felt this way is lying.) and she wants to bang me really bad. The feeling is mutual.
2. My friend has openly stated that he doesn't really care where their relationship goes. He said at first he really liked her but now he just doesn't really care. They hardly hang out, and never do anything sexual (I've heard from both sides XD)
3. I have kind of a thing about letting people down. I don't like it. At all. It weighs down on my mind constantly and I can never get rid of it. By saying, "Never mind, we probably shouldn't ****" I get the strong feeling she'll be let down. >_< I know it's another lame reason but I've let so many people down I don't want to anymore.
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Were I going to play the other man (which I totally never have, not ever, nope), I'd want to feel completely good about it. I'd want to be able to stand behind my actions and feel no guilt about it. You don't sound nearly so secure.
I'm not secure about it at all I mean, I want to mess around with her, and I know we wouldn't get caught, but it's just... I dunno. I'm just a confused young man, who, for the time being, seems to be thinking with his nether regions. Leilani suggested a prostitute to alleviate my sexual tensions, and this is about as close as I'm going to get
Blah, I dunno. I think I'm going to wait and see if maybe she'll forget about it all Then I'll be good.
I have considered that aspect. Here's what I know...
1. I want to bang her really bad (don't think I'm a shallow guy - I'm not, but I just really want to do her... Anyone who says they've never felt this way is lying.) and she wants to bang me really bad. The feeling is mutual.
2. My friend has openly stated that he doesn't really care where their relationship goes. He said at first he really liked her but now he just doesn't really care. They hardly hang out, and never do anything sexual (I've heard from both sides XD)
3. I have kind of a thing about letting people down. I don't like it. At all. It weighs down on my mind constantly and I can never get rid of it. By saying, "Never mind, we probably shouldn't ****" I get the strong feeling she'll be let down. >_< I know it's another lame reason but I've let so many people down I don't want to anymore.
I'm not secure about it at all I mean, I want to mess around with her, and I know we wouldn't get caught, but it's just... I dunno. I'm just a confused young man, who, for the time being, seems to be thinking with his nether regions. Leilani suggested a prostitute to alleviate my sexual tensions, and this is about as close as I'm going to get
Blah, I dunno. I think I'm going to wait and see if maybe she'll forget about it all Then I'll be good.
First. Never use the word 'bang' when you are talking sex. It's demeaning. So is 'I'd hit that!' but whatever.
Second. Don't do it. I've been in this exact same situation, and trust me, the boyfriend will always find out.
Third. You won't let anyone down by not doing it. By having sex with her you are giving into her, and she could/might/will treat you like her sex puppet till the day you die.
I have considered that aspect. Here's what I know...
1. I want to bang her really bad (don't think I'm a shallow guy - I'm not, but I just really want to do her... Anyone who says they've never felt this way is lying.) and she wants to bang me really bad. The feeling is mutual.
So what? Honestly. There's been several people I've wanted to have sex with that I decided not to pursue it for one reason or another. Wanting to have sex with someone shouldn't always be a deciding factor. Especially for an admittedly horomone-driven teenage boy.
2. My friend has openly stated that he doesn't really care where their relationship goes. He said at first he really liked her but now he just doesn't really care. They hardly hang out, and never do anything sexual (I've heard from both sides XD)
So because he's not doing anything with her, it's okay that you do? Mmmmm, sweet rationalizations ....
3. I have kind of a thing about letting people down. I don't like it. At all. It weighs down on my mind constantly and I can never get rid of it. By saying, "Never mind, we probably shouldn't ****" I get the strong feeling she'll be let down. >_< I know it's another lame reason but I've let so many people down I don't want to anymore.
That's so lame I think I threw up a bit in my mouth. "I have to have sex with her now because if I don't, she'll feel let down that she didn't get to experience the joy that is my sexual performance." It's both delusional and weak.
I'm sure she'll find another slampiece so she won't be too hard up if you deprive her.
I'm not secure about it at all I mean, I want to mess around with her, and I know we wouldn't get caught, but it's just... I dunno. I'm just a confused young man, who, for the time being, seems to be thinking with his nether regions.
So many red flags there.
First of all, if you're not secure about it, don't do it. You run the risk of severe guilt and regret. Second, not getting caught doesn't make it okay. Third, thinking exclusively with one's **** is probably the best reason to not do something. Being horny is no reason to be stupid.
So because he's not doing anything with her, it's okay that you do? Mmmmm, sweet rationalizations ....
It's what I do. Yeah I know, I'm retarded. I was blinded with the though of having sex again, but I'm better now
That's so lame I think I threw up a bit in my mouth. "I have to have sex with her now because if I don't, she'll feel let down that she didn't get to experience the joy that is my sexual performance." It's both delusional and weak.
I'm sure she'll find another slampiece so she won't be too hard up if you deprive her.
Haha, I know I know. It's really just my mind saying, "Hey, do it do it do it do it, and think about it some more so you can think of more reasons to do it!" I don't think I should trust my brain anymore
First of all, if you're not secure about it, don't do it. You run the risk of severe guilt and regret. Second, not getting caught doesn't make it okay. Third, thinking exclusively with one's **** is probably the best reason to not do something. Being horny is no reason to be stupid.
You're right. I was being stupid all day.
I'm going to attempt to not talk about it any more, and if it gets brought up I'm going to just say that as long as they are dating then I don't want any part of it.
Thanks guys. I really am an intelligent person (seriously, >_>) but I oftentimes just have no common sense whatsoever.
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Back to fetishes... I love the goth look *_* As long as it isn't overdone or anything, there are times when it gets to be too much. And skirts. I love skirts. So much that I like wearing them... *cough* but that's another story...
I can't really comment on skirts or anything as I haven't the slightest bit of interest.
But yeah... sleeping with a friend's SO isn't cool, unless they both are into that. I think everyone else has sort of said it all, I just want to chime in and say that the need to breed shouldn't be an excuse for betraying a friend... which is exactly what this would be.
If you need sex, all I have to say is, God gave us hands, man, you do the math.
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Good, because I dont have an opinion on "friends with benefits"
Back to fetishes... I love the goth look *_* As long as it isn't overdone or anything, there are times when it gets to be too much. And skirts. I love skirts. So much that I like wearing them... *cough* but that's another story...
Goths piss me off some of the time, but ya, a skirt is hot. The whole jet-black hair is kinda cool though. On a lot of women it looks good, but on some it looks gross.
ANother subject change...
What do you think of straight guys hugging, and when does it become affectionate? I gave my friend a one armed, handshake hug (like how black guys do it) and my friends were all like "HOMO!!!". Seriously, WTF... not lik eI was grabbing his ass... or was I? Haha j/k.. but seriously, teh maturity level and amount of homophobia among guys my age is retared
Goths piss me off some of the time, but ya, a skirt is hot. The whole jet-black hair is kinda cool though. On a lot of women it looks good, but on some it looks gross.
ANother subject change...
What do you think of straight guys hugging? I gave my friend a one armed, handshake hug (like how black guys do it) and my friends were all like "HOMO!!!". Seriously, WTF?!
I used to write for a zine that was dedicated SPECIFICALLY to making fun of goths... so yeah. I'm not too hot on the look, myself.
Moreso in guys than girls- some girls can just pull it off, but I can't think of a guy that can.
I think that straight guys hugging is very normal, but we as a society have made physical contact and affection between men something people are very afraid of seeing. It's a shame, really.
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What do you think of straight guys hugging, and when does it become affectionate? I gave my friend a one armed, handshake hug (like how black guys do it) and my friends were all like "HOMO!!!". Seriously, WTF... not lik eI was grabbing his ass... or was I? Haha j/k.. but seriously, teh maturity level and amount of homophobia among guys my age is retared
I'd like to think it wouldn't be an issue, but amongst younger guys, it totally is. Sadly, it's probably still an issue amongst older men as well. I don't see why. Hugging =/= buttsex and two guys hugging =/= Brokeback Mountain.
I used to write for a zine that was dedicated SPECIFICALLY to making fun of goths... so yeah. I'm not too hot on the look, myself.
I don't quite understand this. Making fun of goths why? Because they wear black? Does making fun of them make you feel better about yourself?
It's a damn look. They don't dress that way to be like, "HEY! Make fun of me!" They dress like that because they like the way it looks. You're not any better than them, in fact you're probably worse for being an elitest *******. Get over yourself.
I find no problem with expressions of affection between men. It is pretty much exclusively due to the puritanism that is still very prevalent here in the US that it is taboo . Most elsewhere, from what I know, finds same-sex affection to be perfectly fine, however.
About the fetishes, well, I have no real world experience, but always in my head I am submissive, sometimes with bondage involved. (How in the world did I just tell you guys that? I guess this place is a rather trusting community...)
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I don't quite understand this. Making fun of goths why? Because they wear black? Does making fun of them make you feel better about yourself?
It's a damn look. They don't dress that way to be like, "HEY! Make fun of me!" They dress like that because they like the way it looks. You're not any better than them, in fact you're probably worse for being an elitest *******. Get over yourself.
heyooo! I dont think Photon meant to offend anyone, it's just that everyone's different. Off all people, you guys shold be able to accept both people's different ways of thinking and different opinions, after all... if you didnt, that would be rather hypocritical.
Personally, I dont mind goths and emos, but they do piss me off when they go out of their way to be goth and emo. For example, when they yell out on the train "I love ecstacy" or "**** the world". Sure, I'm a football player, but I dont disturb others by yelling "Wide recievers have good hands" (it's true, by the way ;). I'm all for being yourself, but that doesnt mean that you have a right to enforce youself on others.
It is possible. Don't you know that we pudge-packers recruit little children by letting them watch Sesame Street on PBS? I swear, this nation will be overrun by ***gots. Pretty soon, people will be marrying their dogs because dogs can consent. What the hell is this country coming to?
Help has come in the form of a bit of basic algebra. I feel that it'll shed some light on your problem here.
Basically:
S + T = W
...S in this case stands for 'spam' and the T stands for 'light trolling'. And the W? That stands for 'Warning'. I love math. -- {mikeyG}
I don't quite understand this. Making fun of goths why? Because they wear black? Does making fun of them make you feel better about yourself?
It's a damn look. They don't dress that way to be like, "HEY! Make fun of me!" They dress like that because they like the way it looks. You're not any better than them, in fact you're probably worse for being an elitest *******. Get over yourself.
You get over yourself. You're jumping to all kinds of conclusions. Yes, not only does it make me feel awesome about myself to pick at a freaking style of fashion, but it's sort of how I get off.
The magazine was a lampoon. The writers all made up gothic personae, and poked fun at the whole gothic movement. We did a goth makeup column, gothic advice, gothic home and garden, anything you can think of that might appear in a woman's magazine we did, only with black eyeliner. In all the time we did it, no one was actually ever offended. In fact, several of my gothic friends were the biggest readers, because they got a kick out of it. Never claimed I was better, just said I didn't like the look.
But you know what? It's impossible not to offend people on the internet. Rage away. Not gonna listen, and certainly not going to give a damn, but go right ahead.
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I would but I dont have any good ones.
Edit: Voice is a big turn on for me too. Also intellect. I don't like being with idiots.
Not always. This case, kinda, 'cause I don't think he's all that hot to begin with.
but to each his/her own, I suppose.
I'm trying to convince mikey to come over and play ddr with me. I haven't played in forever, and I don't really feel like playing by myself. Besides, it's an excuse to hang out with him.
We watched an episode of Oprah in health today, 'cause it was about how smoking/etc. damage your organs. The doctor goes "Okay, guys, if you're impotent, that means something else in you is wrong, it's not just your dipstick".
As soon as he said "dipstick", all 18 of us cracked up. Oprah, of course, made a point to repeat that several times throughout the show. Which made us laugh harder.
I know it seems that I don't care,
but something in me does I swear.
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Me and my friend's girlfriend are going to 'play' sometime soon
I'm ecstatic and disappointed in myself at the same time.
Good to know.
Or you could just ..... not ......
Were I going to play the other man (which I totally never have, not ever, nope), I'd want to feel completely good about it. I'd want to be able to stand behind my actions and feel no guilt about it. You don't sound nearly so secure.
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I have considered that aspect. Here's what I know...
1. I want to bang her really bad (don't think I'm a shallow guy - I'm not, but I just really want to do her... Anyone who says they've never felt this way is lying.) and she wants to bang me really bad. The feeling is mutual.
2. My friend has openly stated that he doesn't really care where their relationship goes. He said at first he really liked her but now he just doesn't really care. They hardly hang out, and never do anything sexual (I've heard from both sides XD)
3. I have kind of a thing about letting people down. I don't like it. At all. It weighs down on my mind constantly and I can never get rid of it. By saying, "Never mind, we probably shouldn't ****" I get the strong feeling she'll be let down. >_< I know it's another lame reason but I've let so many people down I don't want to anymore.
I'm not secure about it at all I mean, I want to mess around with her, and I know we wouldn't get caught, but it's just... I dunno. I'm just a confused young man, who, for the time being, seems to be thinking with his nether regions. Leilani suggested a prostitute to alleviate my sexual tensions, and this is about as close as I'm going to get
Blah, I dunno. I think I'm going to wait and see if maybe she'll forget about it all Then I'll be good.
First. Never use the word 'bang' when you are talking sex. It's demeaning. So is 'I'd hit that!' but whatever.
Second. Don't do it. I've been in this exact same situation, and trust me, the boyfriend will always find out.
Third. You won't let anyone down by not doing it. By having sex with her you are giving into her, and she could/might/will treat you like her sex puppet till the day you die.
So what? Honestly. There's been several people I've wanted to have sex with that I decided not to pursue it for one reason or another. Wanting to have sex with someone shouldn't always be a deciding factor. Especially for an admittedly horomone-driven teenage boy.
So because he's not doing anything with her, it's okay that you do? Mmmmm, sweet rationalizations ....
That's so lame I think I threw up a bit in my mouth. "I have to have sex with her now because if I don't, she'll feel let down that she didn't get to experience the joy that is my sexual performance." It's both delusional and weak.
I'm sure she'll find another slampiece so she won't be too hard up if you deprive her.
So many red flags there.
First of all, if you're not secure about it, don't do it. You run the risk of severe guilt and regret. Second, not getting caught doesn't make it okay. Third, thinking exclusively with one's **** is probably the best reason to not do something. Being horny is no reason to be stupid.
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It's what I do. Yeah I know, I'm retarded. I was blinded with the though of having sex again, but I'm better now
Haha, I know I know. It's really just my mind saying, "Hey, do it do it do it do it, and think about it some more so you can think of more reasons to do it!" I don't think I should trust my brain anymore
You're right. I was being stupid all day.
I'm going to attempt to not talk about it any more, and if it gets brought up I'm going to just say that as long as they are dating then I don't want any part of it.
Thanks guys. I really am an intelligent person (seriously, >_>) but I oftentimes just have no common sense whatsoever.
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Back to fetishes... I love the goth look *_* As long as it isn't overdone or anything, there are times when it gets to be too much. And skirts. I love skirts. So much that I like wearing them... *cough* but that's another story...
But yeah... sleeping with a friend's SO isn't cool, unless they both are into that. I think everyone else has sort of said it all, I just want to chime in and say that the need to breed shouldn't be an excuse for betraying a friend... which is exactly what this would be.
If you need sex, all I have to say is, God gave us hands, man, you do the math.
It seems like his myspace got deleted after it got haxed, and I haven't seen him online in a while.
Good, because I dont have an opinion on "friends with benefits"
Goths piss me off some of the time, but ya, a skirt is hot. The whole jet-black hair is kinda cool though. On a lot of women it looks good, but on some it looks gross.
ANother subject change...
What do you think of straight guys hugging, and when does it become affectionate? I gave my friend a one armed, handshake hug (like how black guys do it) and my friends were all like "HOMO!!!". Seriously, WTF... not lik eI was grabbing his ass... or was I? Haha j/k.. but seriously, teh maturity level and amount of homophobia among guys my age is retared
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I used to write for a zine that was dedicated SPECIFICALLY to making fun of goths... so yeah. I'm not too hot on the look, myself.
Moreso in guys than girls- some girls can just pull it off, but I can't think of a guy that can.
I think that straight guys hugging is very normal, but we as a society have made physical contact and affection between men something people are very afraid of seeing. It's a shame, really.
I'd like to think it wouldn't be an issue, but amongst younger guys, it totally is. Sadly, it's probably still an issue amongst older men as well. I don't see why. Hugging =/= buttsex and two guys hugging =/= Brokeback Mountain.
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Has anyone here played Baten Kaitos? It looks like a fun game, so I've been thinking about buying it.
It is okay. Very very long and quite difficult at parts. Like frustratingly difficult. But overall I'll give it a 6.5/10
I don't quite understand this. Making fun of goths why? Because they wear black? Does making fun of them make you feel better about yourself?
It's a damn look. They don't dress that way to be like, "HEY! Make fun of me!" They dress like that because they like the way it looks. You're not any better than them, in fact you're probably worse for being an elitest *******. Get over yourself.
About the fetishes, well, I have no real world experience, but always in my head I am submissive, sometimes with bondage involved. (How in the world did I just tell you guys that? I guess this place is a rather trusting community...)
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heyooo! I dont think Photon meant to offend anyone, it's just that everyone's different. Off all people, you guys shold be able to accept both people's different ways of thinking and different opinions, after all... if you didnt, that would be rather hypocritical.
Personally, I dont mind goths and emos, but they do piss me off when they go out of their way to be goth and emo. For example, when they yell out on the train "I love ecstacy" or "**** the world". Sure, I'm a football player, but I dont disturb others by yelling "Wide recievers have good hands" (it's true, by the way ;). I'm all for being yourself, but that doesnt mean that you have a right to enforce youself on others.
By the way, you guys have turned me Bi
Haha, jk... got ya for a sec though
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Help has come in the form of a bit of basic algebra. I feel that it'll shed some light on your problem here.
Basically:
S + T = W
...S in this case stands for 'spam' and the T stands for 'light trolling'. And the W? That stands for 'Warning'. I love math. -- {mikeyG}
You get over yourself. You're jumping to all kinds of conclusions. Yes, not only does it make me feel awesome about myself to pick at a freaking style of fashion, but it's sort of how I get off.
The magazine was a lampoon. The writers all made up gothic personae, and poked fun at the whole gothic movement. We did a goth makeup column, gothic advice, gothic home and garden, anything you can think of that might appear in a woman's magazine we did, only with black eyeliner. In all the time we did it, no one was actually ever offended. In fact, several of my gothic friends were the biggest readers, because they got a kick out of it. Never claimed I was better, just said I didn't like the look.
But you know what? It's impossible not to offend people on the internet. Rage away. Not gonna listen, and certainly not going to give a damn, but go right ahead.
Famliy Guy Emperor Says,
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Something, something, something COMPLETE!"
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