Hey. Uh.. Well. My girlfriend is 14 and im 15. We have been dating since april 30th. We are sexually active. Around august. We had broken up because she got drunk at a party and had sex with a guy. It killed me inside. Then i found out that week that she liked my best friend. And they went out on a date. So i went with her bestfriend on a date. And nothing happened for either of our dates. So i thought. Just 1 week ago. I found out that she had sex with my bestfriend.
My friend told me that he used her for sex. When i found out i just wanted to go crazy. She said that it was true. That she had sex with him. It makes me cry everytime i think of it... I know she wont cheat on me again. Or anything. I stopped talking to her for 2 months. She didnt take it well. She has cuts all over her arm now... Ugh. I feel horrible.. I blame myself for everything... I hate my friend. I already told him if i see him again im gonna kick his ass.
And me and my girlfriend used to break up all the time. Around decemeber is when we stopped talking. She was flirting with my other bestfriend of 12 years. It tore me up. I decided not to talk to her again. But plans changed when last sunday i saw her. I couldnt help myself. I kissed her. And it felt great. I already knew about everything in august. Im trying to put it behind me but its so hard... I hate crying about it.. But what should i do? Keep on living the same way? Crying everyday? Ugh... Help me!
Hey. Uh.. Well. My girlfriend is 14 and im 15. We have been dating since april 30th. We are sexually active. Around august. We had broken up because she got drunk at a party and had sex with a guy. It killed me inside. Then i found out that week that she liked my best friend. And they went out on a date. So i went with her bestfriend on a date. And nothing happened for either of our dates. So i thought. Just 1 week ago. I found out that she had sex with my bestfriend.
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My friend told me that he used her for sex. When i found out i just wanted to go crazy. She said that it was true. That she had sex with him. It makes me cry everytime i think of it... I know she wont cheat on me again. Or anything. I stopped talking to her for 2 months. She didnt take it well. She has cuts all over her arm now... Ugh. I feel horrible.. I blame myself for everything... I hate my friend. I already told him if i see him again im gonna kick his ass.
So these are two of your three total posts?
Yeah, I call BS. If this is real, you are too stupid for your own good, anyway, to be drinking and sexually active at 15, AND believing someone who cheats on you once won't do it again.
Yeah, all BS... but the advice I'd give in all scenarios is "PLEASE don't have sex, even with condoms, because even a small % chance of you reproducing is way too much."
This is seriously real... I was on google searching if anyone else was looking for help and I would see what people said to him. and I didn't but I saw a guy that got cheated on and he posted here. So i thought I would. Why would I make this up? I just want advice.. I'm 15 I drink and smoke and have sex. Idc if its bad. I just want help with my situation. and the reason its split up is because my phone would only let me type 512 chars. But im on my computer now.
I guess someone didn't tell you that this site is for people who play magic the gathering...
Anyway, if you're 15 and you drink and smoke and have sex, you have bigger problems than worrying about your cutter unstable girlfriend cheating on you. You don't want to be around a girl like that anyway, trust me. My first girlfriend was sort of like that.
Anyway, you should get your priorities straight in life. If you're smoking and drinking and having sex now, imagine what your future is gonna be like. I bet you'll be gutter trash like all the other people like you that I know.
You sound like you need some counseling, and maybe a probation officer. Maybe next time you could seek help there instead of a MTG website.
I believe that I have enough social competence to slip into a party or two, potentially wooing some attractive females that would not mind spending the evening performing the booty dance on me.
Despite the fact that every reply so far has been flippant, they're actually all pretty much right. Stop ☺☺☺☺ing up your life and you'll probably end up a lot better. Get away from your girlfriend because she's obviously toxic, but save yourself too. Your life is screwed and you need more than just advice from people on the internet. Get some real help, even if it just starts with your school counselor. You'll end up a lot better for it.
Delete that whole post of personal info bro, thats just a terrible idea.
Also if this is indeed real life then lettuce be reality, you have far bigger problems than some emo girl who will not matter in 3 years, go see a counselor, you need help, more help than a mtg real life advice forum can give you.
Also don't have sex, every time kids like you (that emo middle school kid you all know him) have kids, god kills a small animal of his choice.
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If this is real, then your life is completely messed up... seriously? Your friends and girlfriend and you going around having sex with each other like a freaking orgy?
I'm sorry, but I'm not going to be sympathetic at all with you.
Also, please refrain from double posting... or triple posting... its annoying.
And if this is somehow real, (which I doubt) then I'm gonna have to agree with sentimentGX4 on this one.
Dude, I'm so sorry to hear this. The best thing to do would be to talk it out, get a counselor, get your parents, any adult who will listen and act as a mediator, and explain to your girlfriend how her actions make you feel. Talk to her about the dangers of multiple sex partners at such a young age, and tell her how much you love her and how awful it makes you feel inside when she cheats on you.
If she really loves you (and it sounds like she does, she's been dating you since April 30th) she will see the error of her ways. You need to first focus on forgiveness before moving on to greener pastures.
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I'm going to see, but it just smells like a really bad soap opera. Anyway, if this person is real:
1. Cutting+sleeping around is basically how teenage girls act out. This in no short order mean she's got problems. Not a good thing for a person 15, if you actually are but I digress.
2. Redirect her to someone that can actually help her with her emotions, and probably better flag it down for someone that has the authority to deal with her in the best way possible.
3. Don't involve her best friend or whatever in the game.
4. Don't date her, give her space to get fixed. You can't "save" her or whatever, otherwise you're just getting in the way.
I'm a bit aghast at this, considering this seems like a plot out of some really bad teenage melodrama. But for yourself, as some people have said, ask close adults in your life for help. If this is all real, then you seem a bit over your head. Just delegate authority to the proper people, and move on.
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So i went with her bestfriend on a date. And nothing happened for either of our dates. So i thought. Just 1 week ago. I found out that she had sex with my bestfriend.
My friend told me that he used her for sex. When i found out i just wanted to go crazy. She said that it was true. That she had sex with him. It makes me cry everytime i think of it... I know she wont cheat on me again. Or anything. I stopped talking to her for 2 months.
But plans changed when last sunday i saw her. I couldnt help myself. I kissed her. And it felt great. I already knew about everything in august.
You know there's something wrong/fake as soon as you see a title in a MTGS thread that reads "my girlfriend". But yeah, Jasper, everyone has pretty much said it: be a kid. Do the things kids do and take your life slowly. Ditch the girl and move on by yourself even if it hurts. If you do anything in life half as well as your trolling, you're gonna do excellently, budddy.
This ☺☺☺☺ brings me back... except that I was the "this kid's friend" in the story and I didn't cry in my teen years.
I find that careful manipulation of your friends against each other works wonders. Not smart or socially competent enough to do that? Well then I'm sure it will work out anyways. Physical violence is also a highly useful tool in the grand scheme of things.
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So this guy's telling you that his family is going to be tossed out on the street penniless and starving and his dog is going to be kicked repeatedly if you don't give him a positive feedback...and he still won't honor the original deal?
@ Everyone already decided this is fake or trolling...why? Do you really think stuff like this doesn't happen IRL? Cause you're wrong.
@ OP: Look. You cannot possibly know whether this girl will cheat on you. I am a girl and was once a teenage girl. This girl likes sex. Period. And, she's going to have it as much and as often as she can. And, she's going to want to have it with new people.
Despite all this, you are 15, man. She is 14. The two of you are absolutely not mature enough for an actual relationship, based entirely off your statements here.
And another thing: I get a feeling of "☺☺☺☺ you, I'm going to do what I want to do " coming off of you. Why? Because I was that way. Believe me when I tell you that kind of attitude will only lead to a hard and trying life. And that's if you don't end up on drugs. Do that, and you will be an absolute failure at life. Not to sound too harsh, but I never knew my mother because of drugs. I'm telling you, focus on being a kid. You have plenty of time to do grown up stuff. I promise.
Best of luck to you, and don't let these guys turn you off of this site. We're not all jerks.
@OP: My advice, start drinking more, don't just smoke, smoke crack, AND don't just have sex, have giant orgies. If you do this, you won't cry anymore because you'll be too busy having liver failure, nervous system damage, and A.I.D.S. Problem solved...
My friend told me that he used her for sex. When i found out i just wanted to go crazy. She said that it was true. That she had sex with him. It makes me cry everytime i think of it... I know she wont cheat on me again. Or anything. I stopped talking to her for 2 months. She didnt take it well. She has cuts all over her arm now... Ugh. I feel horrible.. I blame myself for everything... I hate my friend. I already told him if i see him again im gonna kick his ass.
And me and my girlfriend used to break up all the time. Around decemeber is when we stopped talking. She was flirting with my other bestfriend of 12 years. It tore me up. I decided not to talk to her again. But plans changed when last sunday i saw her. I couldnt help myself. I kissed her. And it felt great. I already knew about everything in august. Im trying to put it behind me but its so hard... I hate crying about it.. But what should i do? Keep on living the same way? Crying everyday? Ugh... Help me!
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So these are two of your three total posts?
Yeah, I call BS. If this is real, you are too stupid for your own good, anyway, to be drinking and sexually active at 15, AND believing someone who cheats on you once won't do it again.
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However, considering that this user is brand new and has posted only in this topic, I also call BS.
Anyway, if you're 15 and you drink and smoke and have sex, you have bigger problems than worrying about your cutter unstable girlfriend cheating on you. You don't want to be around a girl like that anyway, trust me. My first girlfriend was sort of like that.
Anyway, you should get your priorities straight in life. If you're smoking and drinking and having sex now, imagine what your future is gonna be like. I bet you'll be gutter trash like all the other people like you that I know.
You sound like you need some counseling, and maybe a probation officer. Maybe next time you could seek help there instead of a MTG website.
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Delete that whole post of personal info bro, thats just a terrible idea.
Also if this is indeed real life then lettuce be reality, you have far bigger problems than some emo girl who will not matter in 3 years, go see a counselor, you need help, more help than a mtg real life advice forum can give you.
Also don't have sex, every time kids like you (that emo middle school kid you all know him) have kids, god kills a small animal of his choice.
You think that the events are dramatic and will get everyone's attention but everything turns out far too convoluted to follow.
My advice is to have sex with your girlfriend's best friend. It's the only way you two will ever be on an equal footing.
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I'm sorry, but I'm not going to be sympathetic at all with you.
Also, please refrain from double posting... or triple posting... its annoying.
And if this is somehow real, (which I doubt) then I'm gonna have to agree with sentimentGX4 on this one.
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If she really loves you (and it sounds like she does, she's been dating you since April 30th) she will see the error of her ways. You need to first focus on forgiveness before moving on to greener pastures.
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1. Cutting+sleeping around is basically how teenage girls act out. This in no short order mean she's got problems. Not a good thing for a person 15, if you actually are but I digress.
2. Redirect her to someone that can actually help her with her emotions, and probably better flag it down for someone that has the authority to deal with her in the best way possible.
3. Don't involve her best friend or whatever in the game.
4. Don't date her, give her space to get fixed. You can't "save" her or whatever, otherwise you're just getting in the way.
I'm a bit aghast at this, considering this seems like a plot out of some really bad teenage melodrama. But for yourself, as some people have said, ask close adults in your life for help. If this is all real, then you seem a bit over your head. Just delegate authority to the proper people, and move on.
Ambition must be made to counteract ambition.
Individualities may form communities, but it is institutions alone that can create a nation.
Nothing succeeds like the appearance of success.
Here is my principle: Taxes shall be levied according to ability to pay. That is the only American principle.
I find that careful manipulation of your friends against each other works wonders. Not smart or socially competent enough to do that? Well then I'm sure it will work out anyways. Physical violence is also a highly useful tool in the grand scheme of things.
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@ OP: Look. You cannot possibly know whether this girl will cheat on you. I am a girl and was once a teenage girl. This girl likes sex. Period. And, she's going to have it as much and as often as she can. And, she's going to want to have it with new people.
Despite all this, you are 15, man. She is 14. The two of you are absolutely not mature enough for an actual relationship, based entirely off your statements here.
And another thing: I get a feeling of "☺☺☺☺ you, I'm going to do what I want to do " coming off of you. Why? Because I was that way. Believe me when I tell you that kind of attitude will only lead to a hard and trying life. And that's if you don't end up on drugs. Do that, and you will be an absolute failure at life. Not to sound too harsh, but I never knew my mother because of drugs. I'm telling you, focus on being a kid. You have plenty of time to do grown up stuff. I promise.
Best of luck to you, and don't let these guys turn you off of this site. We're not all jerks.
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