So I'm curious as to what everyone here believes to be an ideal significant other. Let's avoid *ahem* certain physical attributes, but looks should be included. Please explain what you like about that characteristic or feature as well. Please put some thought into it. Here's mine:
Sex/Gender:
Female - I'm only attracted to women. And Harrison Ford, but that's a different thing altogether.
Looks:
Probably not white - I know this one seems weird, but as a white guy I get a very sisterly vibe off of them. I think the crazy girls I dated in high school have turned me off forever.
Medium body shape/weight - I'm not a fan of the modern standards of beauty. I like the more classical version of beauty, with curvy women who are neither thin nor fat. I typically also like big brown eyes.
Personality:
Sense of Humor - This one is typical, but I like someone who likes to laugh. I want a woman who will have lots of laugh lines at 50.
Blunt and aggressive/assertive - I need someone who will talk straight to me, as I'm incredibly observant when it comes to analyzing interactions between other people, but I'm oblivious when people try to send me hints. I also need someone who is willing to challenge me, over anything, as I tend to be domineering and take things over unless someone stops me. The 'aggressive' portion lacks 'passive' for a reason. I can't stand passive aggression, I have to deal with it enough in the outside world, I need someone who will be honest and straightforward with me at home. In essence, I need someone who will humble me without belittling me.
Interests:
Video Games - They have to have at least some interest in Video Games. Mario Kart-level interest is a must, but they don't have to be even a fraction as into them as I am. They DO, however, have to be better than me at at least one game.
Other than that, it's a grab bag. I know a lot of this is specific - but the assertive part is the only thing that is really hard to find (in combination with everything else).
I want a girl who is nice, kind hearted, honest, funny, out going but also laid back. Someone with integrity and knows what it means to keep her promises and knows the difference between right and wrong. For looks, someone who is petite with a pretty smile and long hair. Someone who likes the things I like would be great.
Basically I want the exact opposite of the devil. Oops, sorry, I mean my ex wife.
Personality -- independent female, but chooses to be with me. Dislikes sarcasm. Vocal, rather than keeping opnions to themselves, but non-confrontational. Drinks socially, but not a drunkard (or does not drink at all). Adventurous, but not promiscuous.
Looks -- pale skin, red hair, 19 inch waist on a 40 inch chest. I kid, I kid. Generally I prefer delicate features, cute over beautiful, dark/red hair over blonde, below-average to average in height than 6-foot goddesses. Weight or build, whether over or under, doesn't really matter to me.
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-Character. Doesn't lie, but understands she doesn't need to be forthcoming with everyone about everything, because not everything is everyone's business! Doesn't cheat/scam/fraud others, does not speak ill of others for petty reasons, does not belittle or demean anyone, etc.
-Practical. I'm an idealist, so need a practical partner to balance that out.
-Sober. No, not someone who necessarily abstains from all chemical use, but certainly no hard drugs, and no excessive alcohol. Preferably no marijuana either.
-Polite. I despite unnecessary rudeness, except maybe on the internet...lol. But yeah, I need her to be polite and well-mannered more often than not.
-Cooperative. I'm a very cooperative person, I would much prefer to find common ground and make compromises than argue. I wouldn't get along with a stubborn person.
-Introspective: I would like a woman that can reflect on her feelings/emotions, be aware of her strengths and weaknesses.
-Open minded, but not empty minded: is willing to hear all sides of an argument, but has the integrity not to be swayed so easily.
-Patient: is patient with others, not self-centered, doesn't judge others harshly, except with good reason.
-Compassionate: is sympathetic to the struggles of others, is a positive force for love and happiness in her personal relationships.
Honestly, look at my 2 closest friends and you'll have a good guess.
All I want is someone selfless and loves me as I am. Most of all, I just want love.
This. I don't care about looks or hobbies. I don't even care about gender. I just want somebody who will love me and do as much for me as I do for them.
Sex/Gender: either female or the best trap ever
Looks: Someone who can match my own, that being said that's not exceptionally easy when you look at the following 2 categories, considering I'm 5'10'' 180 10% and have a fairly decent face
Personality: submissive, I don't like women who think too highly of themselves.
soft spoken, I generally take the characteristics of my environment, it's a lot less stressful with a quiet girl
never EVER wants kids, because kids are the worst thing ever made
Interests: Anime, I don't really care how much, but it's a really good conversation topic
The gym, without fail if this isn't a girl's interest she'll wind up fat when she gets in a position where you can't leave her and fat chicks are groce
Cosplay, because it's fun
Looks:
I'm pretty easygoing in this regard. That said, if I had my pick, I'd probably go for an Irish girl.
Body shape/weight:
I'd actually prefer a somewhat curvy girl to a girl who is as thin as a rail.
Personality:
First and foremost, I want a girl who is warm and caring. At the same time, I'd prefer a girl who is measured enough to NOT flip out easily. Tough traits to balance, I know. Sense of humor, particularly a dark/crude sense of humor helps greatly.
Also, I hate to sound like a snob, but I need a girl who is intelligent. In my experience, the only girls I've gotten along with well when dating are the ones who, at least in one area, are brilliant. We ended up teaching each other stuff.
Interests:
She'd have to be a nerd. Anime, gaming, hell even LARP, just so long as she's cool with my blatant nerdery. Ideally she could even get me into something new.
Also, a girl who is into martial arts would be awesome.
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That is a sweet sentiment, but it often translates to 'I don't want to have to change'. As long as you recognize the difference, it's important.
My fiance meets all of my criteria, and has a lot of things I'd never thought of. She was initially disparaging about my playing magic, but I talked to her about it seriously, about how I enjoyed playing it and her comments hurt my feelings, it stopped.
Loves you for who you are doesn't necessarily mean 'accepting of everything about you immediately'. What you want is much better described as 'loves you and is willing to compromise'. You also have to be the same.
Looks:
Long dark/black hair, wide blue, green or grey eyes. Big warm smile. Within a couple of inches in either direction of my height. Thin and slightly curvy, but not too much.
Here's where things get weird. I want her to be either mute or have a severe speech impediment, to the point where she can't verbally communicate and be understood, preferably the second. If we're really going ideal, I'd like the second, and for her to be able to sing (obviously not words, but some sort of vocalization). Now, before someone cracks a joke about a mute girlfriend being ideal, it's because I want someone who knows the value of non-verbal communication, specifically, communication through touch. I have a very strange and very strong sense of touch; I want someone who can reciprocate my feelings about the value of physical human contact, or at the very least, prefers it to verbal communication.
I want her to be childish. I want her to like to make up silly games to play, or join in whatever silly game I come up with. I want her to be curious and like to explore, be it places, people or ideas. I want someone I can sit for hours and marvel at a cityside view or an unusual building with, or anything at all.
I want her to have weirder sleep patterns than I do. I want her to wake me up in the middle of the night to play scrabble or watch some show or go for a walk because she can't sleep and doesn't want to be alone.
Interests:
Ehh... things I'm already interested in, and things I've never heard of or never tried. It doesn't matter beyond that.
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Sex/Gender: Female. I might have wondered if I was curious but women would be my #1 pick.
Looks: Not black. They always remind me of my mother. Apart from that I consider myself extremely picky. However my actions indicate otherwise.
I've been with girls (all thought to be really goodlooking) with a goth(got a thing for them)/ a short, skinny, blonde nerd (currently with, she's gorgeous)/ tall skinny with a booty white girl with short hair (also gorgeous). Those are my last 3 gfs. In therms of things I like in girls: I tend to find girls with short hair cute sometimes but I love long hair. As in, you know those guys that think no boobs can be too big? I'm like that with hair. I see (pictures) girls that have hair to their butts and I absolutly go crazy. My love has it down to her lower back and it still growing it (L) she knows I absolutly love it. (I've never had a gf cut their hair while we dated, I don't ask for it, they just know me and say the hassle is worth it. All my exes cut their hairs within a month of us breaking up.)
I like brown eyes as they seem so earthly. I also like blue and green eyes cause they stand out (my ex had the most beautiful eyes ever (the tall skinny booty one with short hair)).
I like curvy girls a lot more than the skinny onces. I always end up with the skinny ones and I love it. I tend to like short girls but I absolutly loved the height of the tall ones I've dated. I tend to like girls who are a bit... wide rather than thin. I've loved every bit of all my gfs who were all thin.
My favorite hair color is brown. Or black. I tend not to find blondes very good looking, but I've seen quite a few that were stunning (like my love) I only ever found one red head attractive.
Really, for looks I like to think I'm picky but I loved just about everything.
Personality: Same as looks I've been with all sides of the spectrum, and I've loved all of it. The only exception, I'll never go to a girl similar to my previous one. I loved the meaness of one of my exes, we teased eachother a lot, she just seemed good at it, except once, that was really unpleasent. I've been with the love you forever, always forgive so caring ones. That was so sweet it was great. I'm now with the very direct, say what I think, perfect, one.
Interests: Again, anything works, I won't bother listing everything I like. She needs to be smart though, thats one of my only requirements.
A friend of mine told me the other day, "You'll eventually find the right person for you. Someone who won't press charges." Seems about right.
But seriously, all I really ask for is a pulse.
But seriously seriously...
Sex/gender, race, even looks are largely irrelevant to me—I do have aesthetic preferences (blonde hair, blue or green eyes, pale without being pasty, healthy weight), but I wouldn't base partner selection off them. Although ideally they'd be taller than me (I'm 5'9" so that's easier done with men than women). For me, it's more about intelligence, shared interests and values (pretty much has to be one or both of gamer or anime fan, has to be liberal, atheist/agnostic, etc), sense of humour, that kind of thing rather than physical traits—basically someone who's equal parts best friend and partner. Patience is another big one, as is the right balance of being strong-willed and assertive but not controlling or possessive. Other than that it's just the usual stuff like niceness, honesty, etc. Also they should be the indoor type, since I'm very much the type who'd rather stay in than go out and do stuff (why go out and see a movie, for instance, when the couch is right there and staying in to watch something saves time/expense/other people being around/etc).
I want someone I can trust implicitly, someone I can count on to have my back and be there for me when I need it - even if I'm saying I don't. I want someone patient, who can deal with my noncommittal proclivities and know how to get me to open up and how to best avoid causing me to clam up and cool off. Someone who's not passive and can really challenge me and who calls me on my bull**** when I'm an idiot. Someone who stands on their own and who isn't with me because they need to be, but because they want to be (and all too often, people don't realize there's a difference). Someone considerate, level-headed, opinionated, outspoken and able to communicate. Someone who doesn't mind that I really don't have my future figured out and that I'm okay with that. Someone who doesn't mind that I value my freedom and would rather spend my life filling it with experience and adventure and may never settle in one place. A true partner in crime that will be there with me, sharing every step of the way. Appreciating my scathing sarcasm and occasional lapses into arrogant prick is a plus, particularly if such behavior is undercut with complementary humor. Confidence is a must, I don't like a lot of insecurities.
I don't need flawless looks, but I'm happier with above average in that department. Athletic to some degree is more to my liking, but the model look isn't so much. Race isn't a concern of mine, I've been with people from a variety of races and I've realized that there is beauty to be found in all of them. Eye and hair color is a total non-issue for me, but I do appreciate when someone is more natural than artificial. I prefer my partners to be around my height and preferably near my age as well.
I'm sure I'm missing things, but that's basically it. My friends like to say that I'm really just looking for another version of myself and that's probably true for the most part.
Gender Female: Call me old fashion but I would like too continue my family line....
Physical atrabutes:
Does not matter So long as I can get all other attributes. If truely pressed being "not dieing" and "having an above average life expectancy" would be good.
Nonphysical Attributes:
Genuenly loves me for who I am
Smart, She needs too be bright, the brighter the better.
Shares my interests (Gaming, MTG, manga,LARP, ect)
RICH..... VERY VERY RICH......
Preferably has very talented craftsman parents/family members (who also happen too like me thats part of the requirement)
A Tall order I know.... but one I would be very willing too wait for.
Requirements:
Non-smoker
Doesn't do drugs
Agnostic/Athiest
Not obese
Female
Other than that looks aren't too important to me, as long as she's not too overweight, I really don't like body fat. She needs to be smart, preferably smarter than me. A nice brunette with some freckles, and a cute face. I'd much rather have a cute girl than a hot lady. Someone who is a little shy in public, but outgoing and fun in private. I want her to be my best friend in the whole world, and I want to die loving her more than when I first met her. The kicker for me will be personality, and this has been a crutch for me, I over anazlyse and see a minor problem from a girl's personality and foresee future arguments, and just strike her off the list, and move on. Terrible thing to do to a person without twenty minutes of meeting someone (or quicker. )
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Looks - Not too tall and not grossly overweight (health related obviously)
Personality - Biggie for me. Gotta have that aura that just radiates warmth and makes you comfortable around them. A good sense of humor is always a plus too. Girl needs to be assertive and strong and not afraid to speak her mind.
Hobbies - Magic obviously would be one for starters. Video gaming is also up on the list, and I would say at the very least own a wii for those party/casual games. It would be preferable that she plays what I play (FPS, racing, action-adventure stuff) and is fairly good at it too. Comics are another thing, they don't have to be hardcore on that though.
To be honest, I think I just met my dream girl a week ago according to this list
Personality-No drugs, no Satanism, no bomb throwing anarchism. (I am serious. I have dealt with all of these things in women I have dated. Except it was only the intent for the anarchism). It was all good fun. But Sanity is a trait I am looking for.
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I met mine a few months ago, and we're happy so far :3 I wish you good luck in your endeavors, kind sir.
hopefully my handsome face and charming personality will do me good this time. She seems like the kind of girl that would attract alot of guys. And one of my friends already fell for her
My perfect woman is going to be a woman who, above all else, accepts that what I have to offer the world is all that I, well, have to offer the world. Women are constantly looking for a bigger, better deal and I'm not interested in a woman who is constantly going to be looking around for a more exciting situation (and they they realize that they never should have left you in the first place).
My girl is going to take care of her body, mentally and physically, as I do. She will also ideally have talent in something, because there's nothing worse than an attractive, vapid human being. I don't care if she is smarter than me, but she can't be dumb. Preferably college educated but I like street smarts, too.
Of course, as I've found out, all girls are crazy, so this chick is probably not even out there in this generation. People don't want to fall in love anymore, they just think they do.
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Sex/Gender:
Female - I'm only attracted to women. And Harrison Ford, but that's a different thing altogether.
Looks:
Probably not white - I know this one seems weird, but as a white guy I get a very sisterly vibe off of them. I think the crazy girls I dated in high school have turned me off forever.
Medium body shape/weight - I'm not a fan of the modern standards of beauty. I like the more classical version of beauty, with curvy women who are neither thin nor fat. I typically also like big brown eyes.
Personality:
Sense of Humor - This one is typical, but I like someone who likes to laugh. I want a woman who will have lots of laugh lines at 50.
Blunt and aggressive/assertive - I need someone who will talk straight to me, as I'm incredibly observant when it comes to analyzing interactions between other people, but I'm oblivious when people try to send me hints. I also need someone who is willing to challenge me, over anything, as I tend to be domineering and take things over unless someone stops me. The 'aggressive' portion lacks 'passive' for a reason. I can't stand passive aggression, I have to deal with it enough in the outside world, I need someone who will be honest and straightforward with me at home. In essence, I need someone who will humble me without belittling me.
Interests:
Video Games - They have to have at least some interest in Video Games. Mario Kart-level interest is a must, but they don't have to be even a fraction as into them as I am. They DO, however, have to be better than me at at least one game.
Other than that, it's a grab bag. I know a lot of this is specific - but the assertive part is the only thing that is really hard to find (in combination with everything else).
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Mixed race like me. But, race isn't very important.
Rugged athletic body. Or super skinny with no definition.
Very little body hair. Or a regular trimmer.
Expressive face. Like, I can tell what he's feeling before he says anything.
Nurturing/caretaker/home-body/nester.
Spiritual background. Has to believe in something.
Passionate.
Sense of humor.
Male, or FTM.
Gay, bi, fluid, queer, or curious.
Leans left or radically left.
Loves me for who I am.
I want a girl who is nice, kind hearted, honest, funny, out going but also laid back. Someone with integrity and knows what it means to keep her promises and knows the difference between right and wrong. For looks, someone who is petite with a pretty smile and long hair. Someone who likes the things I like would be great.
Basically I want the exact opposite of the devil. Oops, sorry, I mean my ex wife.
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Well put. That more than anything would be refreshing.
All I want is someone selfless and loves me as I am. Most of all, I just want love.
540 Peasant cube- Gold EditionSomething SpicyI'm not to picky, and yet I imagine this makes me look kinda shallow lol.
Looks -- pale skin, red hair, 19 inch waist on a 40 inch chest. I kid, I kid. Generally I prefer delicate features, cute over beautiful, dark/red hair over blonde, below-average to average in height than 6-foot goddesses. Weight or build, whether over or under, doesn't really matter to me.
"Sometimes, the situation is outracing a threat, sometimes it's ignoring it, and sometimes it involves sideboarding in 4x Hope//Pray." --Doug Linn
-Practical. I'm an idealist, so need a practical partner to balance that out.
-Sober. No, not someone who necessarily abstains from all chemical use, but certainly no hard drugs, and no excessive alcohol. Preferably no marijuana either.
-Polite. I despite unnecessary rudeness, except maybe on the internet...lol. But yeah, I need her to be polite and well-mannered more often than not.
-Cooperative. I'm a very cooperative person, I would much prefer to find common ground and make compromises than argue. I wouldn't get along with a stubborn person.
-Introspective: I would like a woman that can reflect on her feelings/emotions, be aware of her strengths and weaknesses.
-Open minded, but not empty minded: is willing to hear all sides of an argument, but has the integrity not to be swayed so easily.
-Patient: is patient with others, not self-centered, doesn't judge others harshly, except with good reason.
-Compassionate: is sympathetic to the struggles of others, is a positive force for love and happiness in her personal relationships.
She's got Flying, First Strike, Trample, Haste, Vigilance, and Pro Black/Pro Red.
The perfect woman!
Just kidding. I really just want a girl who finds my stupid sense of humor charming *bursts into tears because it will never happen*
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This. I don't care about looks or hobbies. I don't even care about gender. I just want somebody who will love me and do as much for me as I do for them.
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Female
Looks:
I'm pretty easygoing in this regard. That said, if I had my pick, I'd probably go for an Irish girl.
Body shape/weight:
I'd actually prefer a somewhat curvy girl to a girl who is as thin as a rail.
Personality:
First and foremost, I want a girl who is warm and caring. At the same time, I'd prefer a girl who is measured enough to NOT flip out easily. Tough traits to balance, I know. Sense of humor, particularly a dark/crude sense of humor helps greatly.
Also, I hate to sound like a snob, but I need a girl who is intelligent. In my experience, the only girls I've gotten along with well when dating are the ones who, at least in one area, are brilliant. We ended up teaching each other stuff.
Interests:
She'd have to be a nerd. Anime, gaming, hell even LARP, just so long as she's cool with my blatant nerdery. Ideally she could even get me into something new.
Also, a girl who is into martial arts would be awesome.
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That is a sweet sentiment, but it often translates to 'I don't want to have to change'. As long as you recognize the difference, it's important.
My fiance meets all of my criteria, and has a lot of things I'd never thought of. She was initially disparaging about my playing magic, but I talked to her about it seriously, about how I enjoyed playing it and her comments hurt my feelings, it stopped.
Loves you for who you are doesn't necessarily mean 'accepting of everything about you immediately'. What you want is much better described as 'loves you and is willing to compromise'. You also have to be the same.
Really?
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Sex/Gender:
Female.
Looks:
Long dark/black hair, wide blue, green or grey eyes. Big warm smile. Within a couple of inches in either direction of my height. Thin and slightly curvy, but not too much.
Here's where things get weird. I want her to be either mute or have a severe speech impediment, to the point where she can't verbally communicate and be understood, preferably the second. If we're really going ideal, I'd like the second, and for her to be able to sing (obviously not words, but some sort of vocalization). Now, before someone cracks a joke about a mute girlfriend being ideal, it's because I want someone who knows the value of non-verbal communication, specifically, communication through touch. I have a very strange and very strong sense of touch; I want someone who can reciprocate my feelings about the value of physical human contact, or at the very least, prefers it to verbal communication.
I want her to be childish. I want her to like to make up silly games to play, or join in whatever silly game I come up with. I want her to be curious and like to explore, be it places, people or ideas. I want someone I can sit for hours and marvel at a cityside view or an unusual building with, or anything at all.
I want her to have weirder sleep patterns than I do. I want her to wake me up in the middle of the night to play scrabble or watch some show or go for a walk because she can't sleep and doesn't want to be alone.
Interests:
Ehh... things I'm already interested in, and things I've never heard of or never tried. It doesn't matter beyond that.
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Female. I might have wondered if I was curious but women would be my #1 pick.
Looks:
Not black. They always remind me of my mother. Apart from that I consider myself extremely picky. However my actions indicate otherwise.
I've been with girls (all thought to be really goodlooking) with a goth(got a thing for them)/ a short, skinny, blonde nerd (currently with, she's gorgeous)/ tall skinny with a booty white girl with short hair (also gorgeous). Those are my last 3 gfs. In therms of things I like in girls: I tend to find girls with short hair cute sometimes but I love long hair. As in, you know those guys that think no boobs can be too big? I'm like that with hair. I see (pictures) girls that have hair to their butts and I absolutly go crazy. My love has it down to her lower back and it still growing it (L) she knows I absolutly love it. (I've never had a gf cut their hair while we dated, I don't ask for it, they just know me and say the hassle is worth it. All my exes cut their hairs within a month of us breaking up.)
I like brown eyes as they seem so earthly. I also like blue and green eyes cause they stand out (my ex had the most beautiful eyes ever (the tall skinny booty one with short hair)).
I like curvy girls a lot more than the skinny onces. I always end up with the skinny ones and I love it. I tend to like short girls but I absolutly loved the height of the tall ones I've dated. I tend to like girls who are a bit... wide rather than thin. I've loved every bit of all my gfs who were all thin.
My favorite hair color is brown. Or black. I tend not to find blondes very good looking, but I've seen quite a few that were stunning (like my love) I only ever found one red head attractive.
Really, for looks I like to think I'm picky but I loved just about everything.
Personality:
Same as looks I've been with all sides of the spectrum, and I've loved all of it. The only exception, I'll never go to a girl similar to my previous one. I loved the meaness of one of my exes, we teased eachother a lot, she just seemed good at it, except once, that was really unpleasent. I've been with the love you forever, always forgive so caring ones. That was so sweet it was great. I'm now with the very direct, say what I think, perfect, one.
Interests:
Again, anything works, I won't bother listing everything I like. She needs to be smart though, thats one of my only requirements.
But seriously, all I really ask for is a pulse.
But seriously seriously...
Sex/gender, race, even looks are largely irrelevant to me—I do have aesthetic preferences (blonde hair, blue or green eyes, pale without being pasty, healthy weight), but I wouldn't base partner selection off them. Although ideally they'd be taller than me (I'm 5'9" so that's easier done with men than women). For me, it's more about intelligence, shared interests and values (pretty much has to be one or both of gamer or anime fan, has to be liberal, atheist/agnostic, etc), sense of humour, that kind of thing rather than physical traits—basically someone who's equal parts best friend and partner. Patience is another big one, as is the right balance of being strong-willed and assertive but not controlling or possessive. Other than that it's just the usual stuff like niceness, honesty, etc. Also they should be the indoor type, since I'm very much the type who'd rather stay in than go out and do stuff (why go out and see a movie, for instance, when the couch is right there and staying in to watch something saves time/expense/other people being around/etc).
I don't need flawless looks, but I'm happier with above average in that department. Athletic to some degree is more to my liking, but the model look isn't so much. Race isn't a concern of mine, I've been with people from a variety of races and I've realized that there is beauty to be found in all of them. Eye and hair color is a total non-issue for me, but I do appreciate when someone is more natural than artificial. I prefer my partners to be around my height and preferably near my age as well.
I'm sure I'm missing things, but that's basically it. My friends like to say that I'm really just looking for another version of myself and that's probably true for the most part.
Archatmos
Excellion
Fracture: Israfiel (WBR), Wujal (URG), Valedon (GUB), Amduat (BGW), Paladris (RWU)
Collision (Set Two of the Fracture Block)
Quest for the Forsaken (Set Two of the Excellion Block)
Katingal: Plane of Chains
Physical atrabutes:
Does not matter So long as I can get all other attributes. If truely pressed being "not dieing" and "having an above average life expectancy" would be good.
Nonphysical Attributes:
Genuenly loves me for who I am
Smart, She needs too be bright, the brighter the better.
Shares my interests (Gaming, MTG, manga,LARP, ect)
RICH..... VERY VERY RICH......
Preferably has very talented craftsman parents/family members (who also happen too like me thats part of the requirement)
A Tall order I know.... but one I would be very willing too wait for.
Non-smoker
Doesn't do drugs
Agnostic/Athiest
Not obese
Female
Other than that looks aren't too important to me, as long as she's not too overweight, I really don't like body fat. She needs to be smart, preferably smarter than me. A nice brunette with some freckles, and a cute face. I'd much rather have a cute girl than a hot lady. Someone who is a little shy in public, but outgoing and fun in private. I want her to be my best friend in the whole world, and I want to die loving her more than when I first met her. The kicker for me will be personality, and this has been a crutch for me, I over anazlyse and see a minor problem from a girl's personality and foresee future arguments, and just strike her off the list, and move on. Terrible thing to do to a person without twenty minutes of meeting someone (or quicker. )
"I've always been a fan of reality by popular vote" - Stephen Colbert (in response to Don McLeroy)
GPolukranos, Kill ALL the Things!G
Race - No preference really
Looks - Not too tall and not grossly overweight (health related obviously)
Personality - Biggie for me. Gotta have that aura that just radiates warmth and makes you comfortable around them. A good sense of humor is always a plus too. Girl needs to be assertive and strong and not afraid to speak her mind.
Hobbies - Magic obviously would be one for starters. Video gaming is also up on the list, and I would say at the very least own a wii for those party/casual games. It would be preferable that she plays what I play (FPS, racing, action-adventure stuff) and is fairly good at it too. Comics are another thing, they don't have to be hardcore on that though.
To be honest, I think I just met my dream girl a week ago according to this list
I met mine a few months ago, and we're happy so far :3 I wish you good luck in your endeavors, kind sir.
Female
Race-Whatever
Looks-Reasonable
Personality-No drugs, no Satanism, no bomb throwing anarchism. (I am serious. I have dealt with all of these things in women I have dated. Except it was only the intent for the anarchism). It was all good fun. But Sanity is a trait I am looking for.
for he is the messenger between the spheres
and the traveler between the realms of the living and the dead.
He shall summon forth the ancient ones
and wake them from their deathly slumber
then shall the elder signs be shattered.
Trade Thread
hopefully my handsome face and charming personality will do me good this time. She seems like the kind of girl that would attract alot of guys. And one of my friends already fell for her
My girl is going to take care of her body, mentally and physically, as I do. She will also ideally have talent in something, because there's nothing worse than an attractive, vapid human being. I don't care if she is smarter than me, but she can't be dumb. Preferably college educated but I like street smarts, too.
Of course, as I've found out, all girls are crazy, so this chick is probably not even out there in this generation. People don't want to fall in love anymore, they just think they do.
- Saka
MTGS Retired Administrator
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