A wrinkle in time a wind in the door yeah I had to read wrinkle for english in...8th grade I think. Loved it. Weird though, that's the book I fell asleep reading and then dreamt the rest of the book (took a test over it too and passed. I was very surprised)
Wrinkle's def worth looking into. It was a creepy book in a good way
So I've watched the first half of Gone with the Wind! I love it so far. It's fantastic. I love the wardrobe and the character development. I'm to intermission and hope to watch the rest of it soon I can't wait to find out what happens next!!
I love that book. I remember reading it when I was younger and I just didn't really get it. Now everytime I reread it I find something new to love about it.
Not to push the conversation back onto Harry Potter, but I saw the new movie the other night. As I suspected it was definitely a different experience, knowing what was going to happen before showed up on the screen. While I do feel it did a good job of fitting all the key plot points into the movie, this installment felt rushed. There was just too much story to fit into one movie and it lacked a great deal of the depth the book had.
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I love that book. I remember reading it when I was younger and I just didn't really get it. Now everytime I reread it I find something new to love about it.
Not to push the conversation back onto Harry Potter, but I saw the new movie the other night. As I suspected it was definitely a different experience, knowing what was going to happen before showed up on the screen. While I do feel it did a good job of fitting all the key plot points into the movie, this installment felt rushed. There was just too much story to fit into one movie and it lacked a great deal of the depth the book had.
That's why the last movie will be done in 2 parts. And how did you like the added fight that wasn't in the book?
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That's why the last movie will be done in 2 parts.
I am very thankful for that. When I first heard about it I knew it was the right thing to do, though I'll bet most people thought it was just a money-brugging move.
And how did you like the added fight that wasn't in the book?
It was a little underwhelming but I understand why they did it. They incorporated the attempt to get at Harry at the beginning without using the scene in the book which would have required a lot more screen time.
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Just a couple more weeks before I can go see HP...or maybe I'll go during a matinee this weekend or something. So since I don't a digital converter box does anyone have the scoop on what new movies will be coming out soon? At work so I can't browse most sites either.
If anyone's curious about how I feel about the scene where you-know-what happens to you-know-who (not You-Know-Who, but you know who), just read Howler's post about it in the thread for the movie in the Entertainment section.
I feel like I've already said it, but it needs to be repeated; they did an excellent job with Malfoy's internal conflict. That kid's a good actor.
Chemistry final exam tomorrow, then I'm free. Free as a bird, for a month. My friends and I were thinking about drafting this weekend to celebrate my release from the prison that is summer school. Any suggestions for recent sets that are good for drafting?
Hey, Cryptic_Hero here...
Right now I'm so confused. I'm having a huge identity crisis right now, involving me being gay or straight. I just got back from a three week camp, at the start of which I found I had a crush on a male counselor (I'm a boy, just so you know) and told a few friends of my newly confirmed homosexuality. In a series of events, this counselor had to leave camp, basically he was kicked out, and I was a wreck for two days. When I recovered from the shock and sadness of the event, I found that I had "lost" my feelings for boys and got a girlfriend. To my friends, I wasn't gay or bisexual but straight again, which I agreed with myself. In the past week I went to a day camp in which I lost all feelings for girls and found myself strongly attracted to two male counselors. Deja vu much? I'm so confused, and I know that I seem to be going back and forth but I'm just not sure I know who I am any more.
If anyone can help or just someone to talk to, either post here or you can pm me.
By the way, although I hate labeling people as certain things, right now I identify as gay.
Well, I guess I kinda know what you're going through; I thought I was gay for the longest time, but now I'm engaged to a female. If you want to talk about it, I'm on YIM. Or through PM works. But otherwise, this clan can be a good support group for that kinda thing.
@ C_H: Yeah, there are a lot of people in this clan who can sympathize (myself included). Just know that what you're going through is not as uncommon as you might think. Feel free to shoot me a PM if you'd like to talk.
One nice way to deal with the pressure when you can't do something immediately applicable, I've found, is to take your mind off of it. Plus, this is a clan, so we should be properly introduced before we fix all of your problems.
There was just too much story to fit into one movie and it lacked a great deal of the depth the book had.
During an interview with the director he said this was intentional. This movie was done for the readers. A lot of the previous movies over explained things so the non-reader would feel they missed something. This movie was focused on giving the readers a visual 'outline' of major points, and a couple of great easter eggs. I also heard the funeral would be in the next movie. My only complaint is this movie seemed too light-hearted compared to the book.
Hello CH, your in good company here. I am and for the most part self identified as gay, but was married for 5 years and have a child, so I can relate quite a bit. Here's a quick tip; when in doubt check your internet history.;)
Hello CH, your in good company here. I am and for the most part self identified as gay, but was married for 5 years and have a child, so I can relate quite a bit. Here's a quick tip; when in doubt check your internet history.;)
Hehehe, I used to think that, but even that can be a bit confusing at times.
Sometimes you feel like eating Italian. Sometimes you feel like eating Chinese. And sometimes you discover all too late that shellfish allergy.
Life's tricky, that's for sure.
I for one, believe firmly in buttering my toast from the right to the left side of the bread. I intellectually understand the right of others to do it differently, but have never understood that attraction on an emotional level.
During an interview with the director he said this was intentional. This movie was done for the readers. A lot of the previous movies over explained things so the non-reader would feel they missed something. This movie was focused on giving the readers a visual 'outline' of major points, and a couple of great easter eggs. I also heard the funeral would be in the next movie. My only complaint is this movie seemed too light-hearted compared to the book.
I'll buy that.
Other than what I've already said, if there was one specific thing I could point to that I felt would have made the movie much better, it would be extending the scene with Snape, Bellatrix, and Narcissus. I felt like in the book Bellatrix's accusations and Snape's explanations were crucial to setting up the tension for the
betrayal, and also the eventual redemption/explanation in the final book.
And even though the scene in the movie hit the major points, it left you thinking more like "what is Snape up to?" rather than "has Dumbledore really been wrong about Snape this entire time?"
Greetings from me as well, Cryptic Hero. First of all, don't worry. There's really nothing unusual about what you're experiencing, as you can see from what other people have said so far. It's actually rather common among people who have accepted they have some homosexual attractions for there to be some fluctuation. I know I had genuine sexual attraction to some of the girls I dated and I still occasionally encounter a woman I think is hot, but I've been with my partner for 8 years and generally prefer guys. I know other people who were in gay relationships for years and then genuinelly went straight. As you said, labels suck. But unfortunately picking one that fits you often makes it a lot easier to communicate with other people. The most irritating part about this is that there is still a stigma associated with identifying as bisexual; among many groups it's ok to be gay but if you say you're bi then people say you're in denial or confused. Makes me want to slap people sometimes.
My advice is that in any given situation just go with what feels right. Don't worry about what you're supposed to feel and just accept what you are feeling. It might be confusing, but if you give it time eventually you'll become more comfortable and confident about what you feel and who you are. And when that happens all the label crap won't matter so much any more.
One thing I'll mention - and don't take my word on this as I'm no professional - is that it's interesting that your gay attractions manifested exclusively while in a camp setting. It's possible that something about that environment is encouraging that side of you. It might be bunking with a bunch of guys in a cabin, or that you're more emotionally open and experiencing bonding at camp, or that it's the only time you interact with guys who are a little older/more mature, or maybe it's just that you're happier and more comfortable at camp. Don't misunderstand: I'm not suggesting that any of these possible factors are causing your feelings, but if you can indentify what is different at camp than in your day-to-day life then it might help you understand your attractions a little better.
And to the rest of you: I love you guys.
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My advice is that in any given situation just go with what feels right. Don't worry about what you're supposed to feel and just accept what you are feeling. It might be confusing, but if you give it time eventually you'll become more comfortable and confident about what you feel and who you are. And when that happens all the label crap won't matter so much any more.
@C_H: This is really good advice. Listen to the man.
One thing I'll mention - and don't take my word on this as I'm no professional - is that it's interesting that your gay attractions manifested exclusively while in a camp setting. It's possible that something about that environment is encouraging that side of you. It might be bunking with a bunch of guys in a cabin, or that you're more emotionally open and experiencing bonding at camp, or that it's the only time you interact with guys who are a little older/more mature, or maybe it's just that you're happier and more comfortable at camp. Don't misunderstand: I'm not suggesting that any of these possible factors are causing your feelings, but if you can indentify what is different at camp than in your day-to-day life then it might help you understand your attractions a little better.
You know, ironically enough, one of the first times I remember ever feeling attracted to another boy was right after the swim test at Boy Scout camp. You might be on to something, Kraj.
C_H don't listen to these ruffians. You must be gay it's all there is. Gay's the way. Straight is awful and clearly bisexuals are just confused....
j/k of course. If you find out only one thing about yourself once the "confusion" goes away is that it doesn't really matter if you label yourself gay or straight or bi, you're wrong.
Because no matter what you say to someone, some petty person will try to label you to fit their own comfort level.
So part of your journey to figure out who you are and what you like and don't like is going to be seeking advice from people. But remember that most of them are confused by your sexuality as you are. If you think you're both and they don't understand that they'll tell you one or the other. If you think you're one or the other and they don't comprehend that possibility they'll tell you you're bi.
And most most most important is that you don't have to feel frustrated. If your divining rod leads you to the grand canyon one day and the eiffel tower the next day it's perfectly fine. Try not to put so much pressure on yourself to figure it out one way or another because there is no wrong or right answer. You just.....are (even if you're a tourist)
My PM Box is always open so feel free to hit me up but I don't sugar coat things so only send a message if you want a big slap of reality
I've somehow been wrangled into co-captain of the company's corporate challenge ping pong team -_-. Yay? I mean I love ping pong but I'm not that good and from what it looks like there's not a lot of organization among the participants. Should I just abdicate or should I get out my whip and ledger and crack these biyas into shape before September?
Kraj: Yeah I know a guy that condemns bisexuals as confused gay people. Funny thing that. He was straight...then questioning.....then decidedly bisexual......and now loathes bisexuals since he's fully gay now.....So pious bah.
So interns, temps, and now recruiters. We've got a lot of attractive people coming for visits/working here now and I'm glad I can distract myself from it with work and what not.
Anyone have "distractions" at their place of work/school?
Kraj: Yeah I know a guy that condemns bisexuals as confused gay people. Funny thing that. He was straight...then questioning.....then decidedly bisexual......and now loathes bisexuals since he's fully gay now.....So pious bah.
Not a surprise. Someone who experienced believing they were bi because they were confused or didn't want to accept they were gay is much more likely to think someone claiming to be bi is experiencing the same thing. It's a rather common behavior: we tend to dislike in others what we dislike about ourselves, especially when it's something we overcame.
Anyone have "distractions" at their place of work/school?
Oh dear lord, yes. There's a pretty good distraction who sits a fews desks from me. Pretty much the entire IT department is made up of hotties, so any time they come around to do anything I pretty much just sit and stare. There's a variety of other delicious eye candy on other floors when I do my deliveries. We had a decent temp recently who pinged my gaydar (and incidentally had the best name for a gay ever: Rider) but on the day he left he made no indication he wanted to keep in touch, so either I was wrong or he doesn't go after 'married' men.
Well, I work with my fiance, so... yeah, I got a distraction. We stay pretty professional at work, though.
Fortuneately, none of the guys I work with really grab my interest (it's mostly girls where work). Every once in a while, a customer catches my eye, but nothing that bothers me any after they've left.
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So I've watched the first half of Gone with the Wind! I love it so far. It's fantastic. I love the wardrobe and the character development. I'm to intermission and hope to watch the rest of it soon I can't wait to find out what happens next!!
I love that book. I remember reading it when I was younger and I just didn't really get it. Now everytime I reread it I find something new to love about it.
Not to push the conversation back onto Harry Potter, but I saw the new movie the other night. As I suspected it was definitely a different experience, knowing what was going to happen before showed up on the screen. While I do feel it did a good job of fitting all the key plot points into the movie, this installment felt rushed. There was just too much story to fit into one movie and it lacked a great deal of the depth the book had.
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She knows why.
That's why the last movie will be done in 2 parts. And how did you like the added fight that wasn't in the book?
*Thanks to Maelstrom Graphics and Numotflame96 for the awesome sig
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I am very thankful for that. When I first heard about it I knew it was the right thing to do, though I'll bet most people thought it was just a money-brugging move.
It was a little underwhelming but I understand why they did it. They incorporated the attempt to get at Harry at the beginning without using the scene in the book which would have required a lot more screen time.
Current New Favorite Person™: Mallory Archer
She knows why.
I feel like I've already said it, but it needs to be repeated; they did an excellent job with Malfoy's internal conflict. That kid's a good actor.
Chemistry final exam tomorrow, then I'm free. Free as a bird, for a month. My friends and I were thinking about drafting this weekend to celebrate my release from the prison that is summer school. Any suggestions for recent sets that are good for drafting?
Back to studying... *crawls back into cave*
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"Someday, someone will best me. But that's not today and it won't be you."
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The outlook of every blue player:
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Right now I'm so confused. I'm having a huge identity crisis right now, involving me being gay or straight. I just got back from a three week camp, at the start of which I found I had a crush on a male counselor (I'm a boy, just so you know) and told a few friends of my newly confirmed homosexuality. In a series of events, this counselor had to leave camp, basically he was kicked out, and I was a wreck for two days. When I recovered from the shock and sadness of the event, I found that I had "lost" my feelings for boys and got a girlfriend. To my friends, I wasn't gay or bisexual but straight again, which I agreed with myself. In the past week I went to a day camp in which I lost all feelings for girls and found myself strongly attracted to two male counselors. Deja vu much? I'm so confused, and I know that I seem to be going back and forth but I'm just not sure I know who I am any more.
If anyone can help or just someone to talk to, either post here or you can pm me.
By the way, although I hate labeling people as certain things, right now I identify as gay.
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One nice way to deal with the pressure when you can't do something immediately applicable, I've found, is to take your mind off of it. Plus, this is a clan, so we should be properly introduced before we fix all of your problems.
I'm Ken. *extends hand*
Thanks to the [Æther] shop for the sig!
During an interview with the director he said this was intentional. This movie was done for the readers. A lot of the previous movies over explained things so the non-reader would feel they missed something. This movie was focused on giving the readers a visual 'outline' of major points, and a couple of great easter eggs. I also heard the funeral would be in the next movie. My only complaint is this movie seemed too light-hearted compared to the book.
Hello CH, your in good company here. I am and for the most part self identified as gay, but was married for 5 years and have a child, so I can relate quite a bit. Here's a quick tip; when in doubt check your internet history.;)
Hehehe, I used to think that, but even that can be a bit confusing at times.
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Life's tricky, that's for sure.
I for one, believe firmly in buttering my toast from the right to the left side of the bread. I intellectually understand the right of others to do it differently, but have never understood that attraction on an emotional level.
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I'll buy that.
Other than what I've already said, if there was one specific thing I could point to that I felt would have made the movie much better, it would be extending the scene with Snape, Bellatrix, and Narcissus. I felt like in the book Bellatrix's accusations and Snape's explanations were crucial to setting up the tension for the
Greetings from me as well, Cryptic Hero. First of all, don't worry. There's really nothing unusual about what you're experiencing, as you can see from what other people have said so far. It's actually rather common among people who have accepted they have some homosexual attractions for there to be some fluctuation. I know I had genuine sexual attraction to some of the girls I dated and I still occasionally encounter a woman I think is hot, but I've been with my partner for 8 years and generally prefer guys. I know other people who were in gay relationships for years and then genuinelly went straight. As you said, labels suck. But unfortunately picking one that fits you often makes it a lot easier to communicate with other people. The most irritating part about this is that there is still a stigma associated with identifying as bisexual; among many groups it's ok to be gay but if you say you're bi then people say you're in denial or confused. Makes me want to slap people sometimes.
My advice is that in any given situation just go with what feels right. Don't worry about what you're supposed to feel and just accept what you are feeling. It might be confusing, but if you give it time eventually you'll become more comfortable and confident about what you feel and who you are. And when that happens all the label crap won't matter so much any more.
One thing I'll mention - and don't take my word on this as I'm no professional - is that it's interesting that your gay attractions manifested exclusively while in a camp setting. It's possible that something about that environment is encouraging that side of you. It might be bunking with a bunch of guys in a cabin, or that you're more emotionally open and experiencing bonding at camp, or that it's the only time you interact with guys who are a little older/more mature, or maybe it's just that you're happier and more comfortable at camp. Don't misunderstand: I'm not suggesting that any of these possible factors are causing your feelings, but if you can indentify what is different at camp than in your day-to-day life then it might help you understand your attractions a little better.
And to the rest of you:
Current New Favorite Person™: Mallory Archer
She knows why.
@C_H: This is really good advice. Listen to the man.
You know, ironically enough, one of the first times I remember ever feeling attracted to another boy was right after the swim test at Boy Scout camp. You might be on to something, Kraj.
Thanks to the [Æther] shop for the sig!
Because no matter what you say to someone, some petty person will try to label you to fit their own comfort level.
So part of your journey to figure out who you are and what you like and don't like is going to be seeking advice from people. But remember that most of them are confused by your sexuality as you are. If you think you're both and they don't understand that they'll tell you one or the other. If you think you're one or the other and they don't comprehend that possibility they'll tell you you're bi.
And most most most important is that you don't have to feel frustrated. If your divining rod leads you to the grand canyon one day and the eiffel tower the next day it's perfectly fine. Try not to put so much pressure on yourself to figure it out one way or another because there is no wrong or right answer. You just.....are (even if you're a tourist)
My PM Box is always open so feel free to hit me up but I don't sugar coat things so only send a message if you want a big slap of reality
I've somehow been wrangled into co-captain of the company's corporate challenge ping pong team -_-. Yay? I mean I love ping pong but I'm not that good and from what it looks like there's not a lot of organization among the participants. Should I just abdicate or should I get out my whip and ledger and crack these biyas into shape before September?
Kraj: Yeah I know a guy that condemns bisexuals as confused gay people. Funny thing that. He was straight...then questioning.....then decidedly bisexual......and now loathes bisexuals since he's fully gay now.....So pious bah.
Compliments from a smart, cute young man. Excuse me for a moment while I cover my face and blush.
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Anyone have "distractions" at their place of work/school?
Not a surprise. Someone who experienced believing they were bi because they were confused or didn't want to accept they were gay is much more likely to think someone claiming to be bi is experiencing the same thing. It's a rather common behavior: we tend to dislike in others what we dislike about ourselves, especially when it's something we overcame.
Oh dear lord, yes. There's a pretty good distraction who sits a fews desks from me. Pretty much the entire IT department is made up of hotties, so any time they come around to do anything I pretty much just sit and stare. There's a variety of other delicious eye candy on other floors when I do my deliveries. We had a decent temp recently who pinged my gaydar (and incidentally had the best name for a gay ever: Rider) but on the day he left he made no indication he wanted to keep in touch, so either I was wrong or he doesn't go after 'married' men.
Current New Favorite Person™: Mallory Archer
She knows why.
Fortuneately, none of the guys I work with really grab my interest (it's mostly girls where work). Every once in a while, a customer catches my eye, but nothing that bothers me any after they've left.