By the by.... um, anyone here sorta like a psychiatrist or something? I kinda wanna ask someone something. Boywise.
I dunno about that, but you can ask anyway. There's enough of us here that someone should be able to help you.
I don't play magic anymore [the only reason I stick around is the gaymers, and the occasional Outside Magic discussion. :p], but I never really named my decks. "The one that works" and "the one that doesn't".
I ganked my mom's laptop. She never uses it. I dunno, exactly, what I'm gonna do with it...but I have stickers on the cover! and I have AIM! and..yeah. haha.
School starts Tuesday, and that's about all I've got.
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I've been recently down and glum due to um... loneliness, and when it looked the bleakest, I met a guy. He's fun, and smart. And it doesn't hurt he's physically attractive as well.
The problem: about two weeks ago, he had a sorta... spiritual breakdown, and had a pow wow with his community's pastors. After which, he summed it up by saying he doesn't like boys anymore.
First off, I've never been one to judge or try to change anyone's view of religion or faith, regardless of my own beliefs into those subjects. However, it's always been my understanding that being gay is a state of being, not a choice of being. Atleast, that's what I've learned throughout my life. You can reject it, but in the end I'd feel one's rejecting thy identity. Anyways, what should I do? Like, I know he doesn't find girls attractive or anything. He just doesn't want to be gay for religious reasons. Should I just give up on him and simply stay as a friend?
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Also, I'm real drunk right now. Might not want to listen to me. Though I did tell my coworkers I was bi tonight (in the words of an equally drunk coworker: "In a 'pit stop to gay town' way or a 'likes guys and girls more or less equally' way? "The second one, Rob." "Oh, ****ing good for you, man."). I'm going to bed now.
Anyways, what should I do? Like, I know he doesn't find girls attractive or anything. He just doesn't want to be gay for religious reasons. Should I just give up on him and simply stay as a friend?
Well, there's the right thing to do (pretty much what gerg said) and then there's what I would do. Which is ask him what the hell he's thinking, tell him I was into him then tell him to take his pick. Cuz really, what the hell do you have to lose?
Also, I'm real drunk right now. Might not want to listen to me. Though I did tell my coworkers I was bi tonight (in the words of an equally drunk coworker: "In a 'pit stop to gay town' way or a 'likes guys and girls more or less equally' way? "The second one, Rob." "Oh, ****ing good for you, man."). I'm going to bed now.
I guess I'll do just what you guys say. Like, I asked a few of my friends from round here and they basically concurred with what was suggested here. Meh. It's for the better I hope.
By the way...
Also, I'm real drunk right now. Might not want to listen to me. Though I did tell my coworkers I was bi tonight (in the words of an equally drunk coworker: "In a 'pit stop to gay town' way or a 'likes guys and girls more or less equally' way? "The second one, Rob." "Oh, ****ing good for you, man."). I'm going to bed now.
...{mikeyG}, you just brightened up my day with that.
I needed a good laugh.
By the way, this'll seem completely off topic but, anyone have any suggestions for music for me to get? I kinda need to update my PSP playlist.
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Also, I'm real drunk right now. Might not want to listen to me. Though I did tell my coworkers I was bi tonight (in the words of an equally drunk coworker: "In a 'pit stop to gay town' way or a 'likes guys and girls more or less equally' way? "The second one, Rob." "Oh, ****ing good for you, man."). I'm going to bed now.
hahahahaha well played mikey, well played...
get some ska... its so... happy...
if you decide to get ska, i recomment The Streetlight Manifesto or Reel Big Fish (but if you get Reel Big Fish get Our Live Album is Better Than You're Live Album) and make sure to get Take On Me, Beer, and Where have you been.
Gus Gus we can play magic if you want on MWS. If you find yourself in MWS channel I'm usually labeled "The Gay"
Otherwise you can find me on MSN Messenger and let me know you want to play.
As far as your man problem goes I'd confront him and ask him if he's committing to the religion as an excuse. That's what it seems like. He's avoiding his sexuality and since he doesn't want to break his identity or his reality he needs a way out. It won't look like he's afraid of who he is or that he's been lying if he suddenly "Finds God".
That's insecure and covering up his true unhappiness. And you should definitely say something right to him about it otherwise he may be unhappy for a long time and you COULD have done something about it before it even began. It doesn't hurt to let him know how you feel. Do let him know that even if he wasn't attracted to you that you wanted to be his friend anyways. But let him know that he's definitely not alone.
Reel Big Fish is officially coolie cause I just found a cover of the Imperial March.
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Also, I'm real drunk right now. Might not want to listen to me. Though I did tell my coworkers I was bi tonight (in the words of an equally drunk coworker: "In a 'pit stop to gay town' way or a 'likes guys and girls more or less equally' way? "The second one, Rob." "Oh, ****ing good for you, man."). I'm going to bed now.
...{mikeyG}, you just brightened up my day with that.
I needed a good laugh.
The real laugh will be on Tuesday when I go back to work.
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hahahahaha well played mikey, well played...
What I think was well-played was my typing. It never fails to impress me when I sober up how well I typed while drunk. One would expect horrible spelling and grammar, but no. I guess my years of experience cruising the internet for porn while completely tossed is finally coming in handy.
Also, Gus Gus, if you're looking for musical reccommendations, try scanning the "What Are You Listening To?" thread in Entertainment. For a cesspool of spam and ++ery (though I've been trying to work on that), it really comes in handy for finding new music.
Anyways, things are starting to shape up in the Rumor Mill ( though i got penalized for trying to help, urzassedatives said i was spamming but i just posted a translation that (i thought) they didn't have.) Only 50 sum cards are left, not a whole lot left to the imagination. Has anyone figured out what the White Magus will be yet? ( I am so hoping for Kor Haven)
Anyone else that has MWS can find me under my usual title of Anna.Mossity
Anyways, things are starting to shape up in the Rumor Mill ( though i got penalized for trying to help, urzassedatives said i was spamming but i just posted a translation that (i thought) they didn't have.) Only 50 sum cards are left, not a whole lot left to the imagination. Has anyone figured out what the White Magus will be yet? ( I am so hoping for Kor Haven)
Anyone else that has MWS can find me under my usual title of Anna.Mossity
Ew. Kor haven would be such a let down. Why not MAgus of the Tabernacle.
Magus of the Tabernacle - 3W
Creature - Human Wizard
Creatures have "At the beginning of your upkeep, sacrifice this creature unless you pay 1"
2/3
Ack! Magic!? Rumor!? Speculation!? Begone from my sight! Take that poppycock to the proper forum!
Heh, just kidding. Except for the word 'poppycock', I'd never kid about that.
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I'll stop now because this isn't the place, at all. And at the same time it is the only place...
It actually is pretty much the place. No need to cut yourself off for no reason. We enjoy identity problems here. Much better than Sudoku.
Also, this might just be the booze talking again, but I'm enjoying the ever-loving hell out of the latest Jake Gyllenhaal = teh ghey speculations flying around. Apparently, he wore a green jacket thing on SNL this weekend, which was last seen on the well-muscled torso of an anonymous male friend last week (the friend was photographed walking with Jake). And this isn't the first instance of acts of jacket-sharing, this summer Jake wore an orange bicycling jacket belonging to Austin Nichols (co-star of The Day After Tomorrow and previously rumored Jake-boyfriend-on-the-downlow). I don't know why, but I think that's just hilarious. I think because it's utterly ridiculous, and also because I half want it to be true.
Ack! Magic!? Rumor!? Speculation!? Begone from my sight! Take that poppycock to the proper forum!
Heh, just kidding. Except for the word 'poppycock', I'd never kid about that.
It actually is pretty much the place. No need to cut yourself off for no reason. We enjoy identity problems here. Much better than Sudoku.
Also, this might just be the booze talking again, but I'm enjoying the ever-loving hell out of the latest Jake Gyllenhaal = teh ghey speculations flying around. Apparently, he wore a green jacket thing on SNL this weekend, which was last seen on the well-muscled torso of an anonymous male friend last week (the friend was photographed walking with Jake). And this isn't the first instance of acts of jacket-sharing, this summer Jake wore an orange bicycling jacket belonging to Austin Nichols (co-star of The Day After Tomorrow and previously rumored Jake-boyfriend-on-the-downlow). I don't know why, but I think that's just hilarious. I think because it's utterly ridiculous, and also because I half want it to be true.
Jake's gay. Can't we all just agree on that or does Lance Bass have to have sex with him first?
He was funny on SNL this weekend though I noticed he messed up a lot in that Law and Order skit. Lol. That one was kinda funny. "You do not start until you hear the bum bum" (My step mom calls that the "gong gong" but w/e) The news was ok but generally meh. Mike you excited about next monday/heroes?
Jake's gay. Can't we all just agree on that or does Lance Bass have to have sex with him first?
As if Jake would slum it like that. Besides, they're both total bottoms, which would make sex tricky.
Mike you excited about next monday/heroes?
Not really, no. Heroes is suffering from "out of sight, out of mind" syndrome. I haven't really spared it much thought since the hiatus started. Actually, the only shows I really give much more than a passing thought to are Supernatural and The Office.
As if Jake would slum it like that. Besides, they're both total bottoms, which would make sex tricky.
I see Jake as a top.
Not really, no. Heroes is suffering from "out of sight, out of mind" syndrome. I haven't really spared it much thought since the hiatus started. Actually, the only shows I really give much more than a passing thought to are Supernatural and The Office.
No kidding -_-. I don't think they should have had the hiatus. It's hard to get back into the suspense they spent so much time building up.
Also: Nominating Dan Keyes for HGOTW eventually when the lush gets around to it
Magus of the Tabernacle. I totally didn't give enough credit to its ass though.
And go me for predicting a shift to White in the Enchantress environment. Unfortunately, now I have a dent from patting myself on the back so much. hehe :-P
I can't describe it without violating the forum rules.
Wow, sounds like the forum rules weren't the only thing violated this weekend.
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Jake's totally capable of topping. You guys are crazy.
Not to extend this tangent further than it really needs to, but Jake is nothing more than a flexible bottom. In addition to gaydar, a functioning top also needs top/bottom-dar. Trust me on this.
Wow, sounds like the forum rules weren't the only thing violated this weekend.
Not to extend this tangent further than it really needs to, but Jake is nothing more than a flexible bottom. In addition to gaydar, a functioning top also needs top/bottom-dar. Trust me on this.
Hrm. I need to develop a gaydar.
Kraj: O_o. Hee. I'm SURE fun was had by all. Kinky freaks
I've never liked how often gay men seem to classify themselves as top and bottom like it's part of their identity. Wouldn't it be better to be both, depending on situation?
Sometimes it just seems to be a gay men specific form of the sexual politics that occurs between straight men and straight women. Seeking to identify specific people as bottoms seems really . . . predatory.
All that I yearn for, for richer or poorer, is to be the light that you see. All that I yearn for, for richer or poorer, is to be the peace that you feel. All that I yearn for, for richer or poorer, is to fill your heart on my own.
But the rainbow is an image of hope for many reasons, as it is a brilliant sight coming out of oftimes dismal weather.
I dunno about that, but you can ask anyway. There's enough of us here that someone should be able to help you.
I don't play magic anymore [the only reason I stick around is the gaymers, and the occasional Outside Magic discussion. :p], but I never really named my decks. "The one that works" and "the one that doesn't".
I ganked my mom's laptop. She never uses it. I dunno, exactly, what I'm gonna do with it...but I have stickers on the cover! and I have AIM! and..yeah. haha.
School starts Tuesday, and that's about all I've got.
I know it seems that I don't care,
but something in me does I swear.
[gaymers]
founder of the MTGS Forum Pirates
'tar/banner by R&Doom.
I've been recently down and glum due to um... loneliness, and when it looked the bleakest, I met a guy. He's fun, and smart. And it doesn't hurt he's physically attractive as well.
The problem: about two weeks ago, he had a sorta... spiritual breakdown, and had a pow wow with his community's pastors. After which, he summed it up by saying he doesn't like boys anymore.
First off, I've never been one to judge or try to change anyone's view of religion or faith, regardless of my own beliefs into those subjects. However, it's always been my understanding that being gay is a state of being, not a choice of being. Atleast, that's what I've learned throughout my life. You can reject it, but in the end I'd feel one's rejecting thy identity. Anyways, what should I do? Like, I know he doesn't find girls attractive or anything. He just doesn't want to be gay for religious reasons. Should I just give up on him and simply stay as a friend?
Well, there's the right thing to do (pretty much what gerg said) and then there's what I would do. Which is ask him what the hell he's thinking, tell him I was into him then tell him to take his pick. Cuz really, what the hell do you have to lose?
Also, I'm real drunk right now. Might not want to listen to me. Though I did tell my coworkers I was bi tonight (in the words of an equally drunk coworker: "In a 'pit stop to gay town' way or a 'likes guys and girls more or less equally' way? "The second one, Rob." "Oh, ****ing good for you, man."). I'm going to bed now.
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Fracture: Israfiel (WBR), Wujal (URG), Valedon (GUB), Amduat (BGW), Paladris (RWU)
Collision (Set Two of the Fracture Block)
Quest for the Forsaken (Set Two of the Excellion Block)
Katingal: Plane of Chains
By the way...
...{mikeyG}, you just brightened up my day with that.
I needed a good laugh.
By the way, this'll seem completely off topic but, anyone have any suggestions for music for me to get? I kinda need to update my PSP playlist.
get some ska... its so... happy...
if you decide to get ska, i recomment The Streetlight Manifesto or Reel Big Fish (but if you get Reel Big Fish get Our Live Album is Better Than You're Live Album) and make sure to get Take On Me, Beer, and Where have you been.
Otherwise you can find me on MSN Messenger and let me know you want to play.
As far as your man problem goes I'd confront him and ask him if he's committing to the religion as an excuse. That's what it seems like. He's avoiding his sexuality and since he doesn't want to break his identity or his reality he needs a way out. It won't look like he's afraid of who he is or that he's been lying if he suddenly "Finds God".
That's insecure and covering up his true unhappiness. And you should definitely say something right to him about it otherwise he may be unhappy for a long time and you COULD have done something about it before it even began. It doesn't hurt to let him know how you feel. Do let him know that even if he wasn't attracted to you that you wanted to be his friend anyways. But let him know that he's definitely not alone.
The real laugh will be on Tuesday when I go back to work.
What I think was well-played was my typing. It never fails to impress me when I sober up how well I typed while drunk. One would expect horrible spelling and grammar, but no. I guess my years of experience cruising the internet for porn while completely tossed is finally coming in handy.
Also, Gus Gus, if you're looking for musical reccommendations, try scanning the "What Are You Listening To?" thread in Entertainment. For a cesspool of spam and ++ery (though I've been trying to work on that), it really comes in handy for finding new music.
Archatmos
Excellion
Fracture: Israfiel (WBR), Wujal (URG), Valedon (GUB), Amduat (BGW), Paladris (RWU)
Collision (Set Two of the Fracture Block)
Quest for the Forsaken (Set Two of the Excellion Block)
Katingal: Plane of Chains
Anyways, things are starting to shape up in the Rumor Mill ( though i got penalized for trying to help, urzassedatives said i was spamming but i just posted a translation that (i thought) they didn't have.) Only 50 sum cards are left, not a whole lot left to the imagination. Has anyone figured out what the White Magus will be yet? ( I am so hoping for Kor Haven)
Anyone else that has MWS can find me under my usual title of Anna.Mossity
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Ew. Kor haven would be such a let down. Why not MAgus of the Tabernacle.
Magus of the Tabernacle - 3W
Creature - Human Wizard
Creatures have "At the beginning of your upkeep, sacrifice this creature unless you pay 1"
2/3
Heh, just kidding. Except for the word 'poppycock', I'd never kid about that.
It actually is pretty much the place. No need to cut yourself off for no reason. We enjoy identity problems here. Much better than Sudoku.
Also, this might just be the booze talking again, but I'm enjoying the ever-loving hell out of the latest Jake Gyllenhaal = teh ghey speculations flying around. Apparently, he wore a green jacket thing on SNL this weekend, which was last seen on the well-muscled torso of an anonymous male friend last week (the friend was photographed walking with Jake). And this isn't the first instance of acts of jacket-sharing, this summer Jake wore an orange bicycling jacket belonging to Austin Nichols (co-star of The Day After Tomorrow and previously rumored Jake-boyfriend-on-the-downlow). I don't know why, but I think that's just hilarious. I think because it's utterly ridiculous, and also because I half want it to be true.
Archatmos
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Fracture: Israfiel (WBR), Wujal (URG), Valedon (GUB), Amduat (BGW), Paladris (RWU)
Collision (Set Two of the Fracture Block)
Quest for the Forsaken (Set Two of the Excellion Block)
Katingal: Plane of Chains
Jake's gay. Can't we all just agree on that or does Lance Bass have to have sex with him first?
He was funny on SNL this weekend though I noticed he messed up a lot in that Law and Order skit. Lol. That one was kinda funny. "You do not start until you hear the bum bum" (My step mom calls that the "gong gong" but w/e) The news was ok but generally meh. Mike you excited about next monday/heroes?
As if Jake would slum it like that. Besides, they're both total bottoms, which would make sex tricky.
Not really, no. Heroes is suffering from "out of sight, out of mind" syndrome. I haven't really spared it much thought since the hiatus started. Actually, the only shows I really give much more than a passing thought to are Supernatural and The Office.
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Fracture: Israfiel (WBR), Wujal (URG), Valedon (GUB), Amduat (BGW), Paladris (RWU)
Collision (Set Two of the Fracture Block)
Quest for the Forsaken (Set Two of the Excellion Block)
Katingal: Plane of Chains
I see Jake as a top.
No kidding -_-. I don't think they should have had the hiatus. It's hard to get back into the suspense they spent so much time building up.
Also: Nominating Dan Keyes for HGOTW eventually when the lush gets around to it
Ah and by the way
http://forums.mtgsalvation.com/showpost.php?p=1706987&postcount=1
Magus of the Tabernacle. I totally didn't give enough credit to its ass though.
And go me for predicting a shift to White in the Enchantress environment. Unfortunately, now I have a dent from patting myself on the back so much. hehe :-P
No, definitely not. Especially not after after BBM. Errr....that is, Brokeback Mountain.
Hehehahaaha, ooooooooooooh, Micah.
I liked the hiatus. It made me realize that it's only a show I really care about the night it's on.
Who? What? Oh **** it, I'm getting a drink.
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Quest for the Forsaken (Set Two of the Excellion Block)
Katingal: Plane of Chains
I can't describe it without violating the forum rules.
Current New Favorite Person™: Mallory Archer
She knows why.
Greg, you can always use those colorful euphemisms I'm so fond of!
Jake's totally capable of topping. You guys are crazy.
Wow, sounds like the forum rules weren't the only thing violated this weekend.
Not to extend this tangent further than it really needs to, but Jake is nothing more than a flexible bottom. In addition to gaydar, a functioning top also needs top/bottom-dar. Trust me on this.
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Fracture: Israfiel (WBR), Wujal (URG), Valedon (GUB), Amduat (BGW), Paladris (RWU)
Collision (Set Two of the Fracture Block)
Quest for the Forsaken (Set Two of the Excellion Block)
Katingal: Plane of Chains
You ain't kidding. Google "MAL"
Current New Favorite Person™: Mallory Archer
She knows why.
Helllloooooooooo DC Cowboys!
So I take it a good time was had by all?
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Collision (Set Two of the Fracture Block)
Quest for the Forsaken (Set Two of the Excellion Block)
Katingal: Plane of Chains
Hrm. I need to develop a gaydar.
Kraj: O_o. Hee. I'm SURE fun was had by all. Kinky freaks
Just be sure you remember to patent it before you start selling it. You don't want something like that getting stolen from you in court.
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Sometimes it just seems to be a gay men specific form of the sexual politics that occurs between straight men and straight women. Seeking to identify specific people as bottoms seems really . . . predatory.
All that I yearn for, for richer or poorer, is to be the peace that you feel.
All that I yearn for, for richer or poorer, is to fill your heart on my own.
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